sunshine91496
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OK so this guy and I were having dinner and I like him a lot, it wasn't a date really, I do like him, and he probably knows that but it was just dinner between two friends. Anyway we were talking about hair, not sure how it happened, and I said something like yeah my own hair is curly, and he's like do you have a weave? and I was like well for now. Really its a lace front. I know I could have said no this is all my hair etc. but it kind of happened quickly. I then went into the whole explanation of why (which is basically), I'm lazy about it, don't feel like wearing a perm, don't want to deal with the nagging from my family about being natural..
Anyway long story short, I ask him, does that kind of stuff matter to guys ( I said I just wanted a guys perspective, and he was like yeah it does, so I said what's the preference, and he said well it depends it just matters what makes the woman look good overall.
Talked about how I wanted to change it, and he was curious how I would change my hair, (e.g. wear it curly, straight etc)Changed topic after that, but then of course I felt totally exposed I know because of my own big mouth. Now this may be a dumb question, but did I just ruin the possibility of anything happening with this guy because I was so honest about my hairstyle. The reason I was honest, was because, i think its so obvious when people have lacefronts, weaves, etc. Even if its a good job I can just tell. Also I know some people we both knew also knew about my hair, so rather than perpetuate the lie, I was just honest.
Ugg sometimes, my mouth is so big
Anyway long story short, I ask him, does that kind of stuff matter to guys ( I said I just wanted a guys perspective, and he was like yeah it does, so I said what's the preference, and he said well it depends it just matters what makes the woman look good overall.
Talked about how I wanted to change it, and he was curious how I would change my hair, (e.g. wear it curly, straight etc)Changed topic after that, but then of course I felt totally exposed I know because of my own big mouth. Now this may be a dumb question, but did I just ruin the possibility of anything happening with this guy because I was so honest about my hairstyle. The reason I was honest, was because, i think its so obvious when people have lacefronts, weaves, etc. Even if its a good job I can just tell. Also I know some people we both knew also knew about my hair, so rather than perpetuate the lie, I was just honest.
Ugg sometimes, my mouth is so big
