I did it. A whole washday of homemade products. And my hair isn't a tangled matted mess. It detangled moisturized and soft. It could be even softer but this is a process.
What I did:
Over night oiling: Diluted EOS on scalp, Castor + hemp on natural parts EVOO + EVCO on relaxed ends. I do this because my natural and relaxed hair like/ need very different oils.
Clarify: Diluted ACV
Shampoo: Diluted blacksoap (naptutral85 on yt recipe)
AVJ rinse
Homemade seaweed/banana DC
Leave in: rose water + AVJ + glycerine
Seal: argan + palm oil