jovial_sis87
New Member
Ok as of today, its been 4 months since i started my hair care journey. I'm sorta happy with the progress but its still bittersweet. I'll show pics of my 3 month progress pic at the end of this post.
Well, i'm alil upset cause my hair is breaking off. when i flat iron (which is rarely) i see alot of short hairs mixed in with the longer ones and i noticed a lot of hair on my shirt lately. u can't really tell in the pic tho. I've DC'd and did protein treatments but nothing has stopped it. i think i know the culprit though....my stylist. I love her to death but she don't know what i thought she did.
Ok so i went to her after my first 13 week stretch. I was so proud of myself cause i knew my hair was thicker and i was so ready to get a relaxer. As soon as she took my hair down from the ponytail she said,"what the heck have u done to yo head?" I was like,"i decided to try to give my hair a break from relaxers cause i want it to thicken it back up". and i started telling her about LHCF saying its a website to help women of color grow longer, healthier hair ( and be healthy overall). She replied, "yo hair don't need to thicken up. Its already thick enough. U shouldn't go that long without a perm! and u know yo head need some heat. Don't ever do that again. if u do only go 6-8 weeks. and who these people on this website. U can't trust every one! Are they stylists? Huh?" So i'm like whatever and rollin my eyes (in my mind cause i didn't want her to pop me in the forehead with a comb cause she kinda like an aunt to me)
Well anyway, she started puttin the relaxer in and complaining the whole time. Then i noticed that she was puttin relaxer on my already relaxed hair. She kinda pulled my hair back into a pony tail. I was like OH MY GOD!!! :burning:13 weeks wasted cause she thought she should use more relaxer. and i'm sitting there pissed cause everybody else walking around with relaxer put on the right way. So i told her i was burning and she went to wash it out.
I'm kinda glad i told her to wash it out when i did cause i accidently got texlaxed. i like the waves when i wash my hair. so i'mma try to stick with it. Anyway, since i don't want to find another stylist i think i'mma start pressing my roots before like a week before i get my perm to make her think i didn't stretch. too scared to perm my own hair and i don't really trust anybody else to do it. Hopefully i do better when it comes to my 6 month update. Thanks for reading!!!ffrant:
Sorry if they are too small. Had to take the pics with my rinky dink phone. The first pic is Dec 2008 and the 2nd is March 09 ( just took my hair down from a bun thats why its going to one side):update:
Well, i'm alil upset cause my hair is breaking off. when i flat iron (which is rarely) i see alot of short hairs mixed in with the longer ones and i noticed a lot of hair on my shirt lately. u can't really tell in the pic tho. I've DC'd and did protein treatments but nothing has stopped it. i think i know the culprit though....my stylist. I love her to death but she don't know what i thought she did.
Ok so i went to her after my first 13 week stretch. I was so proud of myself cause i knew my hair was thicker and i was so ready to get a relaxer. As soon as she took my hair down from the ponytail she said,"what the heck have u done to yo head?" I was like,"i decided to try to give my hair a break from relaxers cause i want it to thicken it back up". and i started telling her about LHCF saying its a website to help women of color grow longer, healthier hair ( and be healthy overall). She replied, "yo hair don't need to thicken up. Its already thick enough. U shouldn't go that long without a perm! and u know yo head need some heat. Don't ever do that again. if u do only go 6-8 weeks. and who these people on this website. U can't trust every one! Are they stylists? Huh?" So i'm like whatever and rollin my eyes (in my mind cause i didn't want her to pop me in the forehead with a comb cause she kinda like an aunt to me)
Well anyway, she started puttin the relaxer in and complaining the whole time. Then i noticed that she was puttin relaxer on my already relaxed hair. She kinda pulled my hair back into a pony tail. I was like OH MY GOD!!! :burning:13 weeks wasted cause she thought she should use more relaxer. and i'm sitting there pissed cause everybody else walking around with relaxer put on the right way. So i told her i was burning and she went to wash it out.
I'm kinda glad i told her to wash it out when i did cause i accidently got texlaxed. i like the waves when i wash my hair. so i'mma try to stick with it. Anyway, since i don't want to find another stylist i think i'mma start pressing my roots before like a week before i get my perm to make her think i didn't stretch. too scared to perm my own hair and i don't really trust anybody else to do it. Hopefully i do better when it comes to my 6 month update. Thanks for reading!!!ffrant:
Sorry if they are too small. Had to take the pics with my rinky dink phone. The first pic is Dec 2008 and the 2nd is March 09 ( just took my hair down from a bun thats why its going to one side):update: