I've been in the online natural hair community for almost 10 years and have definitely observed the texture discrimination over the years.
In order for someone with very tightly coiled (4B/4C) texture to get a lot of attention, likes, followers, subscribers etc their hair has to be exceptionally long and/or dense and/or intricately styled
Those with looser coils/curls can do the most basic of styles or have the shortest hair and get an overwhelming amount of love
- now of course if someone with this texture happens to do intricate styles or grow longer lengths their popularity will jump leaps and bounds above those with tighter coils possessing the same skills, length, etc.
Thing is, we can't force people to admit they have this texture discrimination issue, most will get defensive and just call it a preference or say that those of us with tighter coils are just jealous or oversensitive
- we just have to rock our hair with confidence and openly express our love for natural hair of all textures, especially our own. We should respectfully challenge others when they spew ignorant phrases like "good hair" "bad hair" etc but I think that just seeing more and more of our sistas rocking our hair with pride and grace will help others to see/accept the beauty we see.
I don't really think that it's a conscious thing for most people but it is real. I do think that things are getting better and those of us with tighter coils are growing to
genuinely love our hair and spread that love to others who share our texture who may/may not already love their hair as well.
We are also learning to be innovative about how we take care of our hair and are no longer willing to accept the notion that to wear our hair natural means to suffer & struggle through all the while secretly wishing our hair was "more manageable" aka looser.
We are learning how to think outside of the box to make our hair healthy and manageable without resorting to relaxers, texturizers, a lifetime of weaves and wigs, or certain styles like perpetually short afros or locs (I'm referring to those like me who have resorted to the low afro and locs multiple times in the past out of desperation and frustration - this doesn't apply to those who rock these styles out of choice and rock them beautifully).