koolkittychick
Well-Known Member
I think she is right on point with what she is saying. I think hair typing is the new code language for asking, "Do you have good hair?" I think the hair industry capitalizes on this deeply ingrained insecurity we Black women have as a whole about this. And we as Black women unfortunately perpetually feed this machine.
That is why we are perpetually chasing the perfect technique for a "wash 'n' go," which is really code for "doing what it takes to make it look like I have biracial hair," because for most of us, a literal "wash 'n' go" results in a dull, shrunken Afro. That's why we buy stuff that looks to me like clear shoe polish to rub onto our scalps and call it "edge control." That's why I had to be reminded the hard way a few weeks ago that the stuff I use to make my hair appear straight is the same stuff that they sell as "Nair" and "Drano" for purposes that have nothing to do with healthy hair. And that's why I can walk out the door and encounter roughly 3/4 of the Black women I see wearing stuff on their heads that I or most other people would not deem acceptable for a Halloween costume or a cosplay convention and think they look cute, or at least better than how they would look with their own hair.
If we are still in a place where Traycee from KISS77 is on the verge of tears because she has decided to go natural because she doesn't want to deal with her 4c hair, than we still have a very long way to go in terms of love, self acceptance, and learning to truly appreciate all the diversity we encompass in the Diaspora.
That is why we are perpetually chasing the perfect technique for a "wash 'n' go," which is really code for "doing what it takes to make it look like I have biracial hair," because for most of us, a literal "wash 'n' go" results in a dull, shrunken Afro. That's why we buy stuff that looks to me like clear shoe polish to rub onto our scalps and call it "edge control." That's why I had to be reminded the hard way a few weeks ago that the stuff I use to make my hair appear straight is the same stuff that they sell as "Nair" and "Drano" for purposes that have nothing to do with healthy hair. And that's why I can walk out the door and encounter roughly 3/4 of the Black women I see wearing stuff on their heads that I or most other people would not deem acceptable for a Halloween costume or a cosplay convention and think they look cute, or at least better than how they would look with their own hair.
If we are still in a place where Traycee from KISS77 is on the verge of tears because she has decided to go natural because she doesn't want to deal with her 4c hair, than we still have a very long way to go in terms of love, self acceptance, and learning to truly appreciate all the diversity we encompass in the Diaspora.