ZLUVSNEWZEE
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So once again my daughter's dad is expressing his love for me, telling me he wish we had another chance. We have been at this for 10 years now, on and off. 6 months on 3 months off, 3 months on, 2 months off. This has been going on for so long that it's retarded. We both must be stupid because we keep going at this relationship with our ordinary ways and expect extrodinary results and it never works. We have broken up so many times.
We have to see each other for our daughter and as soon as I see them together I am a goner. I don't think I will ever get over falling in love with the sight of my daughter playing and laughing and loving her dad, and him loving her back. We had this baby on purpose together and then we completely fell apart but we can never stay apart for long.
He gets on my nerves so bad its not even funny. He lost his job a while back and still hasn't gotten another one yet, he's borderline narcissistic personality disorder, very inconsiderate, he lies about stupid s***. But we have a baby who looks just like the both of us, we have passion for each other so much so that we fall in love with each other over and over again as if it's brand new, when things are good we're good friends, he doesn't have anyone else cause his family is f***** up.
So what should I do? My intuition says run but I can't tell the difference between my intuition and my fears. I am very fearful and untrusting so in my screwed up mind he's all kinds of horrible and so is everybody else who has ever hurt me. I have issues and I can no longer tell when my issues are interfereing with my life. My heart is still but constantly longing for my family to be together. My head is saying stupid. I guess it all boils down to if I can be with him just the way he is today. I know I can't get back together with him hoping that he'll change one day. So what do I do?
We have to see each other for our daughter and as soon as I see them together I am a goner. I don't think I will ever get over falling in love with the sight of my daughter playing and laughing and loving her dad, and him loving her back. We had this baby on purpose together and then we completely fell apart but we can never stay apart for long.
He gets on my nerves so bad its not even funny. He lost his job a while back and still hasn't gotten another one yet, he's borderline narcissistic personality disorder, very inconsiderate, he lies about stupid s***. But we have a baby who looks just like the both of us, we have passion for each other so much so that we fall in love with each other over and over again as if it's brand new, when things are good we're good friends, he doesn't have anyone else cause his family is f***** up.
So what should I do? My intuition says run but I can't tell the difference between my intuition and my fears. I am very fearful and untrusting so in my screwed up mind he's all kinds of horrible and so is everybody else who has ever hurt me. I have issues and I can no longer tell when my issues are interfereing with my life. My heart is still but constantly longing for my family to be together. My head is saying stupid. I guess it all boils down to if I can be with him just the way he is today. I know I can't get back together with him hoping that he'll change one day. So what do I do?