So I'm on the phone with my mom and she started telling me something she saw on the news. My response was "I know. Dad told me." She sighed and was like "I don't want to hear about your father right now". My parents have been divorced for almost 10 years but they are on speaking terms. Some days I would even call them friends but I usually stay out of it and don't ask any questions. Anyway, without prompting she goes on this tirade about how ex's don't need to be in each others lives at all unless they have small children and how me and my sister are grown and if she wanted to she would never have to hear from my father again. When it's over it's over and move on to the next person or not but trying to maintain a friendship is stupid and pointless. Now obviously, my parents must be in the middle of a fight
But it got me thinking. Is this how most people feel? I'm in my 30's and have done the merry go round thing with lots of ex's, popping back up, off and on again relationships. I don't like it and don't know how it became a thing for me. Or for most people for that matter. I saw something on instagram the other day that said "One day you're gonna text me and I'm gonna be married" with a crying laughing emoji. It's so normal these days but the older I get, I think I agree with my mother. What do you all think? Not just for spouses but for ex boyfriends too? When it's over (if there are no children involved or anything that is keeping you together) should the ex cease to exist in your world?
But it got me thinking. Is this how most people feel? I'm in my 30's and have done the merry go round thing with lots of ex's, popping back up, off and on again relationships. I don't like it and don't know how it became a thing for me. Or for most people for that matter. I saw something on instagram the other day that said "One day you're gonna text me and I'm gonna be married" with a crying laughing emoji. It's so normal these days but the older I get, I think I agree with my mother. What do you all think? Not just for spouses but for ex boyfriends too? When it's over (if there are no children involved or anything that is keeping you together) should the ex cease to exist in your world?