movado32k1
New Member
Ok. So I met a guy who I thought was sooo wonderful. We have known each other for year but got together a year ago. The last year has been the happiest of my life. He even came to my parents house and told them he wanted to marry me. We went to church together I talk to his mom all the time. We have dated long distance for the past year. Lately he has been acting strange and saying that maybe we need to break up because the distance is getting to him. I cried and cried because he was being so aloof. About two weeks ago he decided that we should break up. He still calls me everyday and tells me he loves me. I am going on my intership next year and I planned to go to a site that was near to him. I basically stacked all my choices to be close to him. He says dont worry because when I get there we will get married. Today I went into his email and found naked pictures of 2 women and of him that he has sent to these women who are in the same city that he is in. He sent the pic on the 6th, 22nd, 17th of last month, we broke up on the 9th of this month. I also found an email he sent to his ex a month ago, saying he was thinking about her and please call him. Which I think she did based on a more recent email. I am soooooo devistated. My problem now is that I left about $500 worth of clothes and electronics at his house over the last year. I want them back!!! He claims he will send them but I have my doubts. I dont know if I should just book a ticket and go get my stuff or what. I mean I thought he was so ideal, he was everything I ever wanted since I was a little girl and now I feel so dumb, and so numb I feel like my heart has been ripped from my chest. He took me to look at rings for heaven sakes!!! Really are there any good men out there or am i just dumb to think that there are? What do I do now? I dont know if I can fake like I dont know till I get my stuff back and my phone is on his bill and I have already given the number to all these internship sites to call me for interviews. HELP!!!