chocolatedoll18
New Member
If this amazing guys have some "issues" that you said you didnt want?
So i met this guy who i really like and i think is a wonderful guy, but there are two things that im not sure i agree with. He has two children one of whom is the child of his baby mother's previous relationship, not biologically his, but he wants to be in his life anyway. the second issue is he doesnt want to go back to school. He has what he calls a good job, owns his house and car, but i will definitely be making more than him once i graduate.
Backstory: I just ended a relationship with a guy who had a child and who wasnt in school and said i wouldnt do it again. Other factors broke us up btw.
But this new guy is so great i told him i need time to figure out what i want before i get in a relationship because i feel like i might be settling for something i said i dont want. Should i grab this guy because of his other great qualities or should i go try to find a guy who has most of the qualities i want?
So i met this guy who i really like and i think is a wonderful guy, but there are two things that im not sure i agree with. He has two children one of whom is the child of his baby mother's previous relationship, not biologically his, but he wants to be in his life anyway. the second issue is he doesnt want to go back to school. He has what he calls a good job, owns his house and car, but i will definitely be making more than him once i graduate.
Backstory: I just ended a relationship with a guy who had a child and who wasnt in school and said i wouldnt do it again. Other factors broke us up btw.
But this new guy is so great i told him i need time to figure out what i want before i get in a relationship because i feel like i might be settling for something i said i dont want. Should i grab this guy because of his other great qualities or should i go try to find a guy who has most of the qualities i want?