Pennefeather
Well-Known Member
Recently, I was speaking with a patient who is a hairdresser. We were making small talk. Because I have known this lady for years, I know that her daughter's husband is black and they have two biracial girls.
She was speaking of some elderly patients who's hair she had been doing for over fifty years. Then she said that it was such a shame a some people don't like their hair, and try to change it. Initially, she starting talking about drastic hair color changes - brunette to blonde, but went on to mention texture. According to her, many people with straight hair want curls, and those with curly hair want straight hair.
Then she said to me that black people were the worst offenders of all. So many of them don't like their texture.
The comment took me back for a moment. Almost as soon as she said this, she was called by the physician, so we didn't get to discuss this at all, but it did cause me to think.
I don't believe that she was being negative about black hair. I think that she saw it as unfortunate that more women didn't leave their hair natural. I thought that it was a interesting perspective. I know that she has never had any black clients because she has told me that in the past. Her grandkids live out of state, but she will trim and style their hair at times. Both of them have hair that is mid back.
Nice to know that she likes to see natural hair. Of course people choose to have relaxers, texturizers, and weaves for any variety of reasons. It is nice to be able to choose the way that you would like your hair to look.
She was speaking of some elderly patients who's hair she had been doing for over fifty years. Then she said that it was such a shame a some people don't like their hair, and try to change it. Initially, she starting talking about drastic hair color changes - brunette to blonde, but went on to mention texture. According to her, many people with straight hair want curls, and those with curly hair want straight hair.
Then she said to me that black people were the worst offenders of all. So many of them don't like their texture.
The comment took me back for a moment. Almost as soon as she said this, she was called by the physician, so we didn't get to discuss this at all, but it did cause me to think.
I don't believe that she was being negative about black hair. I think that she saw it as unfortunate that more women didn't leave their hair natural. I thought that it was a interesting perspective. I know that she has never had any black clients because she has told me that in the past. Her grandkids live out of state, but she will trim and style their hair at times. Both of them have hair that is mid back.
Nice to know that she likes to see natural hair. Of course people choose to have relaxers, texturizers, and weaves for any variety of reasons. It is nice to be able to choose the way that you would like your hair to look.