SouthernBeauty
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Sign me up!! I am transitioning and my last relaxer was December 7 so I am 19 wks post today. I will stretch until December and do the big chop on my birthday December 9!
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Thank you so much! The more of them that start popping up, the more I'm tempted to transition! Mum says she doesn't know where I got that "texture" from, but back when I was natural, I didn't know a thing about caring for it beyond washing it, grease and pulling it up in a puff.Hey Janelle, I'm lovin' those natural curls in your siggy.
Ladies who exercise, how do you keep the ng from getting all types of crazy after sweating?? The reason why I always relax at 3 months is because I exercise regularly and only wash once a week, so my hair looks all jacked up by the end of week #12 since I don't know how to keep my ng at bay
. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated. Unfortunately, my relaxed ends hate air drying, so that is not an option for me right now... HEEEELLLLPPP!!
A friend just told me this after I said to her that my cornrows are looking so frazzled and I need to take them out like yesterday. She said she couldn't tell because my natural hair looks like I have "good hair". I was like "huh?" Boy if she only knew how much trouble I have trying to detangle this head of hot mess while stretching my relaxers.
Thank you so much! The more of them that start popping up, the more I'm tempted to transition! Mum says she doesn't know where I got that "texture" from, but back when I was natural, I didn't know a thing about caring for it beyond washing it, grease and pulling it up in a puff.
~*Janelle~*
OFFTOPIC: Your signature picture is beautiful. I smile everytime I see it, because both of you are glowing and look so happy together.
4. I know this is generally considered a, but I touch my new growth the day before I'm set to wash. I use my fingers to gently massage my new growth, separting the coils, to release shed hair. I do this with absolutely no breakage. A tiny knot is nothing to untangle so catch them while they're small.
I'm curious as to why this is considered a nono? I also detangle my hair before I wash and I have no problems. I saturate my hair with a prepoo concoction and detangle gently to get all my shed hair out. The prepoo concoction (usually Amla mixed with a slippery conditioner and whatever else I feel like throwingm in the mix) softens everything up nicely.
I also wash in 2 halves (parted straight down the middle) and keep it like that throughout the whole process. I do not suffer from any matting and the back of my head is 4b.
The following methods are working for me, so I figured it might help someone else.
1. Most of us know that separting the hair into four sections while washing is great at preventing tangles. My crown is thicker and coarser than the back of my, so I only separate into two sections while washing (straight down the middle).
2. I'm also part of the wig challenge (using half wigs and a silk top lace wig with clips). I keep my hair separted down the middle at all times. This prevents the top from matting up like it has it the past.
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My problem is I'm using MT and taking Biotin. My NG has made my hair shrivel up sooooooooooooooo bad that I don't really have much to bun with now. I mean due to a setback, I'm grazing SL but the NG is mad crazy, there is nothing left to really bun with!!!!!!!!! I'm I the only one? (I hope not) I resorted to tree braids. I can't have no anorexic bun!!!!!!!!!
I just went with the anorexic bun. Of course, I am not working right now. If I were working in a professional setting, I'd figure out something else to do with my hair.
My anorexic bun needed some SERIOUS hair friends! It was not a good look. I felt like one of those chicks that use all that hair gel to slick it up into like five strands. I was sooooooooo self conscious.
17 weeks post as of the 23rd, just did my first BKT today and I love it so far. Hopefully this will get me to at least 6 months post (2 more months!).
Hello Everyone,
I'll be 6 weeks post on Wednesday and so far so good. I have not had any problems with my NG since it's not much there. Each week I alternate between a rollerset and a braidout. This week I'll be doing a braidout for the 2nd time. I want to pefect my braidout technique because I will probably be wearing braidouts every week when I get deeper into my stretch.
Okay, I decided that because I am transitioning to texlaxed hair, I will attempt to stretch even longer than the original 8 months that I planned to do earlier. I believe that I can make it until just a week before the Christmas this year through wearing braids, cornrows and wigs. That will take my stretch from 8 months (ie 32 weeks) to 47 weeks - December 17th, 2009.
I know I am getting a little bit zeallous, but I really want to try this and with your help here, I know I can do this.
I thought BKT was some type of chemical treatment! Anyhoo, what do I knowohwell:!
Carry on...