BroadstreetBully
New Member
I know this topic has been discussed over and over again in every different form but sometimes I think back throughout my school years and remember how hair seemed to be of the utmost importance to everyone. I feel embarrassed when I think about how I was always another one of the girls with short damaged hair that contantly broke off. Hair seemed to rule my life because I didn't have a whole lot of it and it was never healthy. People looked down on me because I never styled my hair. My hair always looked a mess. I remember all those comments ignorant people would make about hair like "only mixed girls can have long hair". I remember how girls would give me weird looks because my hair wasn't styled to a T with globs of hair grease and gel. It seemed like any girl whose hair was shoulder length had "long hair." A few months ago I was on campus when I came across this guy who I hadn't seen since elementary school. Now mind you he was white and as we sat down to talk about what we've been up to and our fellow classmates he commented on how I "still looked the same" with the "same short hair." Now that shocked me. I mean I know my hair hadn't grown at all throughout these years; however, it was a wakeup call for me. I don't really consider the comment rude and I am happy someone brought this to my attention. I don't wanna run into another classmate from the past and be the same girl with the same short, unhealthy hair. For once I want them to be like "wow!" In elementary school there was this girl who all the other girls admired because she had "long hair." Her hair was like maybe 2 inches past shoulder and quite thin and overprocessed, but the rest of us didn't care, to us it was LONG. By highschool it was still the same length and no thicker or healthier, but still, it was "long". We were in English class one day and I was wearing braids. One of the girls in class was talking to me about how she was thinking about wearing braids to grow her hair longer. The girl with the "long" hair joined in on the convo and commented that she would NEVER wear a weave. This guy near by says something like "you don't need to wear a weave, your hair is already long." Now I'd rather have short, shiny, think hair than have hair like hers. I've seen this girl on campus a few times and her hair is still the same length and in the same condition (funny how genetics CAN play a part in hair length, this is not the first time I've seen someone with damaged looking hair past their shoulders.) Somehow I can't wait to grow my hair longer and healthier and watch the look on her face when she sees that anyone can grow their hair long. I am happy to come across these incidents because it reminds me to keep my eye on the prize. I would love to read about other incidents ladies on this board have had and how it has inspired them. I would also love some before and after stories of those who have actually reached their goals and therefore stunned everyone who doubted them.