niqu92
New Member
ok so i have been dating this guy for the past couple of months and at first everything seemed fine with him...but then again everything always seems perfect in the begginning lol... Anyway, dating him was a big step for me because back in march i had gotten out of a 2yr relationship so it took me awhile to start talking to different ppl again. So like i said everything seemed fine with him..hes attractive,sweet,has goals,goes to the same college as me,he works,hes jamaican=free oxtail&patties whenever i want, and he makes me laugh. Well for the past couple of weeks ive noticed more&more that he is very immature[sigh,there had to be a catch somewhere]. He is 20 years old and he watches cartoons non-stop,plays video games non-stop, and never ever ever takes anything seriously-not even his school work. its so bad to the point where everysingle time i talk to him over the phone hes constantly playing some video game. Whenever i go over his house to see him hes always playing videogames and when i complain and ask him to put the videogames away and spend time with me his response is "ok you wanna watch cartoons?lets see whats on cartoon network" or "You wanna play Call of Duty?"like dude are you kidding me? you are freaking 20 years old,youre about 2turn 21 and youre still watching Courage the Cowardly Dog& Spongebob?ugh.
my dad doesnt like him because he also thinks hes immature and the other day he was telling me that at this point of my life whomever i date i have to ask myself if i can picture marrying and spending the rest of my life&growing with that person and that i wont be able to grow with a person like him due to his lack of maturity.
i mean out of all his qualities the fact that hes immature is the only negative thing i can think of-everything else is perfectly fine. so i dont know if i should just focus on his positive traits rather then that one negative trait..i mean i really want to talk to him about it but i dont know how to approach him.
any opinions?have any of you guys ever been w.someone that was immature&if so how did you deal with it?
my dad doesnt like him because he also thinks hes immature and the other day he was telling me that at this point of my life whomever i date i have to ask myself if i can picture marrying and spending the rest of my life&growing with that person and that i wont be able to grow with a person like him due to his lack of maturity.
i mean out of all his qualities the fact that hes immature is the only negative thing i can think of-everything else is perfectly fine. so i dont know if i should just focus on his positive traits rather then that one negative trait..i mean i really want to talk to him about it but i dont know how to approach him.
any opinions?have any of you guys ever been w.someone that was immature&if so how did you deal with it?