So my and my SO decided to call it quits. Honestly this was a long time coming. I have been unhappy for a while now and I was thinking it was one of those ups and downs that relationships go thru. He was under extreme amounts of stress and I was doing my best to help him thru it but he kept pushing me away and our relationship took a major hit because of it.
I still love him and if he needed me I would be there in a second to help him thru whatever it is he needs. However I am not particularly sad about this. I have cried so much in the last few weeks as I have fought tooth and nail for this relationship that I have no more tears to shed. I actually felt a sense of release. I don’t really know what else it to say it sorta surreal right now. I don’t feel lonely b/c in the last month I have probably spent time with him about 5-7 times. He was constantly mad at me over something I did or said or wore (I decided to spice up my wardrobe and he hated everything said I should dress more like a mother, even tho I don’t have any kids )
I don’t understand why Im not hurting. I loved him I still do. But I’m happy with this decision.
I still love him and if he needed me I would be there in a second to help him thru whatever it is he needs. However I am not particularly sad about this. I have cried so much in the last few weeks as I have fought tooth and nail for this relationship that I have no more tears to shed. I actually felt a sense of release. I don’t really know what else it to say it sorta surreal right now. I don’t feel lonely b/c in the last month I have probably spent time with him about 5-7 times. He was constantly mad at me over something I did or said or wore (I decided to spice up my wardrobe and he hated everything said I should dress more like a mother, even tho I don’t have any kids )
I don’t understand why Im not hurting. I loved him I still do. But I’m happy with this decision.