Mandy4610
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Ok, so there is this girl I know. She has BSL hair.. the problem is it is very thin and unhealthy on the ends. She has WNG, her hair needs some major TLC. I can tell she has really nice hair and it would do really well if she took care of it. If I had that girls hair, the first thing I would do is relax the NG and then cut off a few inches every now and then until the ends are healthy again. I feel so frustrated with people who are blessed with such beautiful hair but they don't take good care of it and they let it get so unhealthy.
I have thought of giving her advice ( I have actually given her a few pointers but she won't do a thing for her hair).
I feel like ripping her head off of her and putting it back on after I have given that head some TLC.
What do you think ladies? Should I just gather up my guts and tell her how awful her hair looks and how beautiful it will be if it is well cared for?
ETA:Sorry ladies that I was not clear when I initially posted the above. I am not jealous of her hair by any means, I love my hair just the way it is and I am not wanting hers for myself. I just want to help her because I love doing hair and when I see unhealthy hair (my own included) I want or would like to do something about it. I have always done other peoples hair in the past and maybe thats why I always feel like that. I am not a professional by any means, I just like to help when I can.
Judging by yall's reactions, I should just keep my optimism to myself. and not try to rescue everyone's hair and come out looking like a jealous freak. NO HARD FEELINGS.
I have thought of giving her advice ( I have actually given her a few pointers but she won't do a thing for her hair).
I feel like ripping her head off of her and putting it back on after I have given that head some TLC.
What do you think ladies? Should I just gather up my guts and tell her how awful her hair looks and how beautiful it will be if it is well cared for?
ETA:Sorry ladies that I was not clear when I initially posted the above. I am not jealous of her hair by any means, I love my hair just the way it is and I am not wanting hers for myself. I just want to help her because I love doing hair and when I see unhealthy hair (my own included) I want or would like to do something about it. I have always done other peoples hair in the past and maybe thats why I always feel like that. I am not a professional by any means, I just like to help when I can.
Judging by yall's reactions, I should just keep my optimism to myself. and not try to rescue everyone's hair and come out looking like a jealous freak. NO HARD FEELINGS.
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