HoneyDew
Well-Known Member
I am only posting here because I know you ladies will feel my pain.
My mom had been wearing different sets of braids for about 6 months. She was ready to get them removed and wanted me to relax her hair about a week after.
I relaxed her with Profectiv regular and gave her a light protein treatment and deep conditioner. I gave her hair so much TLC that day - using my higher quality products. Today, 2 weeks later, we were out and she told me that my sister is giving her a touch up today. I was like
I said "I just gave you one, Mom!" and she said that her hair reverted. I touched it and although her roots were kinda thick - SHE DID NOT NEED MORE CHEMICALS. I did not say anything else.
Then later she told me that she is so scared because she has been noticing pieces of her hair breaking and more shedding than normal. I noticed that her ends did not look that great.
Also when she was driving, the back of her head was rubbing against the seat constantly making her hair stick up. That is where she is getting a lot of the breakage!!! I told her that she should put a silk scarf or something over her seat or put her hair up while she drives.
But, she will not listen to me!!! I don't know what to do. If it was anyone else, I would just let them be, but it is hard because it is my mom.
I really wish she would let me give her some pointers. I don't have long hair, but I really do work well in keeping what I do have healthy and strong. I know I could give her some helpful pointers. But, since I have been named the Hair Nazi, I just hush.
I know there is not much you guys can suggest or say, but I knew you guys would at least understand my feelings.
My mom had been wearing different sets of braids for about 6 months. She was ready to get them removed and wanted me to relax her hair about a week after.
I relaxed her with Profectiv regular and gave her a light protein treatment and deep conditioner. I gave her hair so much TLC that day - using my higher quality products. Today, 2 weeks later, we were out and she told me that my sister is giving her a touch up today. I was like
I said "I just gave you one, Mom!" and she said that her hair reverted. I touched it and although her roots were kinda thick - SHE DID NOT NEED MORE CHEMICALS. I did not say anything else.
Then later she told me that she is so scared because she has been noticing pieces of her hair breaking and more shedding than normal. I noticed that her ends did not look that great.
Also when she was driving, the back of her head was rubbing against the seat constantly making her hair stick up. That is where she is getting a lot of the breakage!!! I told her that she should put a silk scarf or something over her seat or put her hair up while she drives.
But, she will not listen to me!!! I don't know what to do. If it was anyone else, I would just let them be, but it is hard because it is my mom.
I really wish she would let me give her some pointers. I don't have long hair, but I really do work well in keeping what I do have healthy and strong. I know I could give her some helpful pointers. But, since I have been named the Hair Nazi, I just hush.
I know there is not much you guys can suggest or say, but I knew you guys would at least understand my feelings.