runwaydream
Well-Known Member
ok. so there's this guy that i met a little while ago. we've hung out a couple of times and he's really sweet. sent me flowers for my birthday, remembered when i said i wanted the "across the universe" soundtrack and bought it for me. bought me a book to this movie i really liked. and he's an attractive black man, doing something with his life, well spoken and we like alot of the same things. but now he's telling me he REALLY likes me a lot and from our last date i can tell he wants to take it to the next level. here's the thing tho... he's just too... GOOD. i mean.. he's so straight edged. he's such a...square. the guys im usually attracted to have that extra SOMETHING about them. the kind of bad ass, i dont give a damn about anything aura about them. he doesnt have that.. i dont want to be one of those girls tho that go around saying, "where are all the good black men" and when i have one right in front of me that really likes me i let him go. but... idk. he's too GOOD. idk what to do. hes texting me and asking if he can take me out for valentines day. he wants to kno how i feel about him... i dont know what to say. i need advice ASAP. hes waiting for an answer...