MzLady78
Well-Known Member
Sorry, I don't agree with the whole smile and keep it moving suggestions in this situation.
This is his mother, not some distant relative that she can forget exists. She is going to have to be around this woman if she's gonna be in this relationship and there's only but so much a person can/should take. No one should have to tolerate disrespect just because it's somebody's mama, screw all that.
When he's in a better place mentally, you need to let him know that he HAS to really discuss this with her. Not some half-a**** remark when she says something to you, but a sit down, straight forward conversation.
If things don't improve, yeah, you might have to tell her about herself. It will be unfortunate, but at least it would have been a last resort.
This is his mother, not some distant relative that she can forget exists. She is going to have to be around this woman if she's gonna be in this relationship and there's only but so much a person can/should take. No one should have to tolerate disrespect just because it's somebody's mama, screw all that.
When he's in a better place mentally, you need to let him know that he HAS to really discuss this with her. Not some half-a**** remark when she says something to you, but a sit down, straight forward conversation.
If things don't improve, yeah, you might have to tell her about herself. It will be unfortunate, but at least it would have been a last resort.