afrofaithful
Well-Known Member
So I posted about this before but in the off topic section...things have kind of changed so here it is...
My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship. A few months back it was very difficult and we broke up (only for a small amount of time). During the interim, I kind of hooked up with someone. When I say kind of I mean the guy was (IS STILL) a virgin so nothing happened. We did end up making out and laying in bed with each other (we were naked...). I didn't tell my boyfriend, and from the advice I received I was told that I shouldn't say anything. Being that we weren't together and it was really none of his business. Well, I got this advice when we weren't together. Now that we are again, I feel guilty. I feel like I should tell him. The thing is he is jealous and I don't want to lose his trust. He also recently told me that he knows I wouldn't be unfaithful, but I feel like I have done something wrong. Do you think I violated our trust? Do you think I should tell him? We are planning on being together when we are in the same country again, and are talking about getting married...
Any advice is appreciated...TIA
My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship. A few months back it was very difficult and we broke up (only for a small amount of time). During the interim, I kind of hooked up with someone. When I say kind of I mean the guy was (IS STILL) a virgin so nothing happened. We did end up making out and laying in bed with each other (we were naked...). I didn't tell my boyfriend, and from the advice I received I was told that I shouldn't say anything. Being that we weren't together and it was really none of his business. Well, I got this advice when we weren't together. Now that we are again, I feel guilty. I feel like I should tell him. The thing is he is jealous and I don't want to lose his trust. He also recently told me that he knows I wouldn't be unfaithful, but I feel like I have done something wrong. Do you think I violated our trust? Do you think I should tell him? We are planning on being together when we are in the same country again, and are talking about getting married...
Any advice is appreciated...TIA