DarkJoy
Bent. Not Broken.
Hey OP. He is being an insensitive jerk. Very immature. From someone who's been around, im gonna say he is acting his age and may not be 100% ready. But yall made a baby so you both need to mature and be on board the same ship.
As for the self esteem: I clearly read your reactions and "voice" here as post partum depression. I had it and it made everything 10 times worse. It also sounds like you have a tendency to depression already with your past so the possible ppd is compounding whats already there.
It does go away eventually. For me it wasnt til she stopped nursing.
Hopefully you will find help to deal with the possibile ppd. Treatment wi get everything else in perspective.
Best of luck and congrats on your baby!
As for the self esteem: I clearly read your reactions and "voice" here as post partum depression. I had it and it made everything 10 times worse. It also sounds like you have a tendency to depression already with your past so the possible ppd is compounding whats already there.
It does go away eventually. For me it wasnt til she stopped nursing.
Hopefully you will find help to deal with the possibile ppd. Treatment wi get everything else in perspective.
Best of luck and congrats on your baby!