1stladysonshine
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I am in a long distance relationship. Normally I visit my man for the holiday's. Well, last week he has said that financially it isn't a good time for me and his daughter (1 year old ) to visit him. Okay, well I said, "Maybe I'll understand that because things are pretty stressfull right now. He doesn't have money and neither do we. So, two days ago while on the phone with him someone comes to his door (around 7pm). This is our conversation:
Him: "Hello, who is it?" (to the person at the door) "Babe, let me call you right back" (to me).
Me: "Okay, I love you."
The Call Back Around 5 minutes later:
Him: "Babe a friend of mine is over here because she needs to talk and i am her only friend she has got here. i just wanted you to know what was up. Hold on hold on, she wants to talk."
Her: "Oh my god Lena I love you so much. I love you so much. I have heard so much about you. I just need to speak with him for a minute because I am going through some crazy stuff right now. i love you soooo much."
Me: Thinking (What the heck?) At this point I am blown and unfortunately when i get shocked i can't speak..."Uhhh, OOOkay"
Him: See Babe, I just don't want you to think anything crazy. Are you mad? You sound mad."
Her: Taking the phone again to go through the same stuff she just said.
Him: "Hold on let me go outside. I think she is mad" (talking to her about me)
Babe don't be mad. She really has nobody to talk to.
Me: "Well Bob, I don't really know what to say. I guess I am just going to have to trust what you say. Alot of people would call me stupid right now. Am I stupid, Bob?"
Him: "No, no...I promise"
Me: "Well handle your business. I am going to sleep."
Now, we haven't spoken since then. He called the next day around 4pm, 5pm, and 7pm. I didn't answer because I am still trying to sort out how I feel and how to handle this. I don't have the money to pop up. So, I am lost. I need advice!!!!!!!!! erplexed
Summary:
1. He said don't visit for the holiday
2. A chick comes to his house for comfort at 7pm at night and gets on the phone with me
3. He doesn't call me back until the next day (later the next day)
4. Am I crazy?
Him: "Hello, who is it?" (to the person at the door) "Babe, let me call you right back" (to me).
Me: "Okay, I love you."
The Call Back Around 5 minutes later:
Him: "Babe a friend of mine is over here because she needs to talk and i am her only friend she has got here. i just wanted you to know what was up. Hold on hold on, she wants to talk."
Her: "Oh my god Lena I love you so much. I love you so much. I have heard so much about you. I just need to speak with him for a minute because I am going through some crazy stuff right now. i love you soooo much."
Me: Thinking (What the heck?) At this point I am blown and unfortunately when i get shocked i can't speak..."Uhhh, OOOkay"
Him: See Babe, I just don't want you to think anything crazy. Are you mad? You sound mad."
Her: Taking the phone again to go through the same stuff she just said.
Him: "Hold on let me go outside. I think she is mad" (talking to her about me)
Babe don't be mad. She really has nobody to talk to.
Me: "Well Bob, I don't really know what to say. I guess I am just going to have to trust what you say. Alot of people would call me stupid right now. Am I stupid, Bob?"
Him: "No, no...I promise"
Me: "Well handle your business. I am going to sleep."
Now, we haven't spoken since then. He called the next day around 4pm, 5pm, and 7pm. I didn't answer because I am still trying to sort out how I feel and how to handle this. I don't have the money to pop up. So, I am lost. I need advice!!!!!!!!! erplexed
Summary:
1. He said don't visit for the holiday
2. A chick comes to his house for comfort at 7pm at night and gets on the phone with me
3. He doesn't call me back until the next day (later the next day)
4. Am I crazy?