Hi everyone, thank you for the beautiful and lovely compliments. They truly make me feel so good especially if i having a bad day. You guys are going to kill me i am still working on a routine because i am away at school. For now i condition wash twice a week with Pantene Smooth and Sleek or R/N with mixture of EVOO. When i shampoo i literaty use a dime size so my ends will not get dry. I dust as needed. That could range from every month to three depending on the level of breakage. My ends are really sensitive. When I finish washing i put my hair in ponytail loose, and i twist into a bun. Sometimes i wear my bangs out depending on the day, but usually i keep my hair back. What has kept my hair growing is cutting back on heat I straighten my hair every 3 to 5 months. I straigthened slightly early because i was sick my curly hair, but this will be the last time this year i will straighten my hair. It was my fourth and final time. I flat iron once a year, because many times my hair looks no different when i flat iron because it so thick. Also I clarify around once a month with baking soda. In additon, I wrap my bun every night with my silk scarf. I do not leave without it. Also if it is a bright sunny day , I wear my silk scarf most of the time too. It can be a little less stylist but the sun damages my hair badly so i have to protect it. I have a lot of breakage problems. They were very mininal before i had to go college, but overall i have had a lot setbacks and breakage but i either try something different or dust. It is hard to tell ends damage because of the thickness. If my hair breaks i dust by the time i straighten it turn out ok. Furthermore, when I straighten I use lustrasilk moisture max. It works great and its cheap. Usually i would not use it since it contains mineral oil and petroleum, but i use a very miminal and it works great and it gives my hair shine while blow drying. Even though my hair is thick, my hair really only takes about 10-15 mins to blow dry. I divide my hair in four sections. First i use wide tooth comb and dry with the blow drier nozzle to detangle, but then i finish with and attachment comb on my blow drier. This really smoothes out and straightens my hair. My hair has always been thick during a blow out. My stylist usually can flat it better. I am still practicing. I hope i answered everyones questions. Thank you again ladies.