Rastafarai
Well-Known Member
Let's say you met someone and you started dating and during the course of that dating he was by far more in love with you than you were with him. He would do anything for you and treated you like a Queen. In return, however, you were treated him badly and was the ultimate *****. However, he still stuck with you because he wanted things to work.
Over the course of that dating you grew distant and pushed him away because you did not think he was your type given your difference in educational background and did not find him intelligent enough. You then went on to have a big argument and you told him to move on and find someone else in a heated rage. That was the last time you heard from him.
Fast-forward to two weeks and you realized you had let a good thing go. You tried reaching out to him for several days but to no avail. You were then finally able to arrange to see each other and talk things out. During that discussion he relayed that you had hurt him dearly but despite this he misses you and loves you immensely and he wants to work things out, however, he was currently "talking to someone". You found out that that "talking" involved being intimate with this other person. He said that you have his heart, however, he is not the type to hurt women and fears hurting this new woman in his life. His parting words were "we will have to wait and see what happens".
Do you wait? Do you demand that he cuts ties with someone who he knows he does not want to be with but is with out of obligation and fear of hurting her? Do you move on? Do you think he is p*ssyfooting the situation and being a wimp for not standing up for what he wants, which he claims is you?
Over the course of that dating you grew distant and pushed him away because you did not think he was your type given your difference in educational background and did not find him intelligent enough. You then went on to have a big argument and you told him to move on and find someone else in a heated rage. That was the last time you heard from him.
Fast-forward to two weeks and you realized you had let a good thing go. You tried reaching out to him for several days but to no avail. You were then finally able to arrange to see each other and talk things out. During that discussion he relayed that you had hurt him dearly but despite this he misses you and loves you immensely and he wants to work things out, however, he was currently "talking to someone". You found out that that "talking" involved being intimate with this other person. He said that you have his heart, however, he is not the type to hurt women and fears hurting this new woman in his life. His parting words were "we will have to wait and see what happens".
Do you wait? Do you demand that he cuts ties with someone who he knows he does not want to be with but is with out of obligation and fear of hurting her? Do you move on? Do you think he is p*ssyfooting the situation and being a wimp for not standing up for what he wants, which he claims is you?