Krymsonkween
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My husband is over seas working as a civilian contractor, and we have started alittle support group with some of the other ladies. Well one of the ladies came to group and was in tears. Her husband has been gone for 1 year. They have had problems. When he left he left her $6,000 behind in mortage, $3,000 behind in 1 car, $1,000 behind in another car, he had borrowed from his mom and dad the sum of $15,000 and owes them, he has 1 loan in his moms name $5,000, loan in his $9,000 and had tried to get one in her name he also has $1,000 lona in dads name. She almost lost her home for the second time they lost their first home about 4 years ago. He has the man is the head mentalility and he takes or was suppose to take care of everything and did not.
Well she has worked really hard and has filed bankrupcy to get herself back on track. He does send his check home but they had to close their jont account becasue he owes $22,000 in back taxes so the government would not take her money. So far he is a good man he is just really bad with money.
She has been having an affair. She cries because she wants to do right but she has been under so much stress with all of the financila woes he put her through. She almost had a nervous breakdown last year under the pressure. They both have been married 2x his first wife told her he was not good with money but she thought the ex was just trying to keep her from a good thing.
She is a beautiful woman and has a heart of gold. She is one of those people that u meet and instantly like. She loves her husband but says she is tired and wants out, but is scared. The man she is seeing is good. They are not really getting into anything because she has alot of issues from what her ex has done to her. He never beat her or anything just made bad choices. I remember he was doing debt to wellness classes and now I find out he could not even pay his bills.
What do yall think I should say. I told her she needs to stop having the affair and try and make it work. They have no children 2gether. So what do yall tink.
Well she has worked really hard and has filed bankrupcy to get herself back on track. He does send his check home but they had to close their jont account becasue he owes $22,000 in back taxes so the government would not take her money. So far he is a good man he is just really bad with money.
She has been having an affair. She cries because she wants to do right but she has been under so much stress with all of the financila woes he put her through. She almost had a nervous breakdown last year under the pressure. They both have been married 2x his first wife told her he was not good with money but she thought the ex was just trying to keep her from a good thing.
She is a beautiful woman and has a heart of gold. She is one of those people that u meet and instantly like. She loves her husband but says she is tired and wants out, but is scared. The man she is seeing is good. They are not really getting into anything because she has alot of issues from what her ex has done to her. He never beat her or anything just made bad choices. I remember he was doing debt to wellness classes and now I find out he could not even pay his bills.
What do yall think I should say. I told her she needs to stop having the affair and try and make it work. They have no children 2gether. So what do yall tink.
He did not take classes
he was teaching people how to get out of debt. I don't know she says she feels so much better when he is away and feels free. When he comes home she is stressed becasue all he wants to do is spend money.
), which resulted in my being several thousand dollars in debt. I truly want to punch her in the mouth every time I see her...
