WonderGirl2U
Well-Known Member
I have a quick question.
I feel like I've overstated my intentions to a man, and I don't know how to back out of things smoothly. I think my desire to go ahead and settle down led me to go along with a man's plans without really evaluating if things are right for me (which I'm feeling they may not be).
I don't know a good way to let him know I want to slow all the way down and rewind things. He's getting older too and wants to settle down, but I realized I keep letting him set the agenda, and it doesn't look like it's in my best interest. I want to communicate this to him honestly and politely, but I don't know how to do it.
Any suggestions? I want to take some time out and try to get clearer on my goals and expectations because even though I thought I was stronger than in the past, I realized I just let someone back in who I probably should have kept out. This makes me think I have more work to do on myself.
I feel like I've overstated my intentions to a man, and I don't know how to back out of things smoothly. I think my desire to go ahead and settle down led me to go along with a man's plans without really evaluating if things are right for me (which I'm feeling they may not be).
I don't know a good way to let him know I want to slow all the way down and rewind things. He's getting older too and wants to settle down, but I realized I keep letting him set the agenda, and it doesn't look like it's in my best interest. I want to communicate this to him honestly and politely, but I don't know how to do it.
Any suggestions? I want to take some time out and try to get clearer on my goals and expectations because even though I thought I was stronger than in the past, I realized I just let someone back in who I probably should have kept out. This makes me think I have more work to do on myself.