I broke up with my ex 5 months ago! I finally came to "my epiphany" and I can say I am sooo over him and very happy again. I have a male friend who I have known since grade 1 (6 years old). We are both 27 now. He tried to kiss me back then and I ran away...lol. His last relationship was 5 years ago with his childs mother (who was my friend in junior high school). Long story short she hurt him, his feelings got hurt and now he is hesitant to get into a relationship. We talk regularly and he is a good man I know he is the kind of man I want. He has said to me that if he gets into a relationship again that woman will be his wife. He has had relations women over the 5 years but no relationship. I feel we are on the same page in terms of what we both want from a relationship. The next man I meet I want to marry and I was hurt too so I know where he's coming from. I dont know where these feelings of mine for him came from but they are here. We have always flirted with each other. He says he does not want a relationship now but he says he "knows he's getting older and would like a wife."
So my question is how do I ease into the subject and let him know how I feel. I want to take it slowly to get to that point not just boom jump into another relationship just like that but work to get there gradually. I hope this makes sense and feedback is much appreciated.
So my question is how do I ease into the subject and let him know how I feel. I want to take it slowly to get to that point not just boom jump into another relationship just like that but work to get there gradually. I hope this makes sense and feedback is much appreciated.