Glib Gurl
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Okay, so I was just on the phone with Dutch Chocolate (for almost two hours ) and I am clearly the talker between the two of us. I was asking him different things about himself and at one point he seemed almost apologetic and said - "I'm not that interesting. I don't have that much going for myself." I quickly changed the subject, but I was shocked I mean, y'all know I have dealt with self-esteem issues plenty in the past, but it always breaks my heart when I hear another person talking down about themselves.
Even though we go on and on about women with self-esteem issues (as induced by Madison Avenue and Hollywood), we don't talk much about men and their issues. I'm sure that they face a ton of pressure - while we feel pressure to measure up to Halle or Beyonce, I'm sure men feel like they fall short if they don't meet the same standards as Denzel or Brad Pitt.
So, what can you do to raise a man's self-esteem? Complimenting them is one thing . . . but at the same time you don't want to get too much into that "Oh you're great!" pep talk because it just can seem inauthentic and ring hollow -- especially if the person doesn't believe that. Actions speak louder than words, so what are some things can a woman can do to boost a man's esteem? (You know, besides letting him have the privilege of being in her company )
Even though we go on and on about women with self-esteem issues (as induced by Madison Avenue and Hollywood), we don't talk much about men and their issues. I'm sure that they face a ton of pressure - while we feel pressure to measure up to Halle or Beyonce, I'm sure men feel like they fall short if they don't meet the same standards as Denzel or Brad Pitt.
So, what can you do to raise a man's self-esteem? Complimenting them is one thing . . . but at the same time you don't want to get too much into that "Oh you're great!" pep talk because it just can seem inauthentic and ring hollow -- especially if the person doesn't believe that. Actions speak louder than words, so what are some things can a woman can do to boost a man's esteem? (You know, besides letting him have the privilege of being in her company )