I've had this problem for yearrrs and I think it has gotten worse ![Frown :( :(](/smilies/frown.gif)
I will start off by saying I am a little shy and whatnot, but I have never been told I look mean, but....
I've been told multiple times that I am not approachable...that the way I carry myself would make a guy nervous to 'get at me.'![Look :look: :look:](/smilies/look.gif)
I do not know what it is that I am doing that is causing this...
Like last night I went to a school meeting and there was a guy there who I think is a cutie and I ALWAYS see him around campus, but we never speak. Now he went out of his way to look at me and try to get my attention (i.e. talking loud and walking past multiple times)...but he never actually stopped to say anything even though it seemed as though he wanted to...
So those of you who may have advice, I would greatly appreciate it.![Smile :) :)](data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7)
Or if there is a post discussing this, a link would be great too.
![Frown :( :(](/smilies/frown.gif)
I will start off by saying I am a little shy and whatnot, but I have never been told I look mean, but....
I've been told multiple times that I am not approachable...that the way I carry myself would make a guy nervous to 'get at me.'
![Look :look: :look:](/smilies/look.gif)
I do not know what it is that I am doing that is causing this...
Like last night I went to a school meeting and there was a guy there who I think is a cutie and I ALWAYS see him around campus, but we never speak. Now he went out of his way to look at me and try to get my attention (i.e. talking loud and walking past multiple times)...but he never actually stopped to say anything even though it seemed as though he wanted to...
So those of you who may have advice, I would greatly appreciate it.
Or if there is a post discussing this, a link would be great too.