FunkyMunky
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THERE ARE 2 SEPARATE QUESTIONS FOR THE POLL!!!
I am beginning to wonder if my view on compatibility and getting along in a relationship is unrealistic. erplexed
We are all familiar with the phrase, "you pick and choose your battles." :swordfigh
In my past long term relationships that had absolutely no arguing, it was due in large part to a) I didn't really care enough to argue or b) I was so in love with the person that I picked and chose my battles out of wanting to keep the peace or fear. So basically, I was either bored or freakin crazy.
I'm in a fairly new relationship. 3 months out we were going strong, absolutely no arguments . Now, it's happening!! :axehunter:
I feel he is great for me and we compliment each other very well, me but it seems like every 14 days or so we get into a stupid spat about what, you ask??? Absolutely Nothing!!!!
Maybe its frustration/tiredness/misunderstandings, I have no idea . When me and my SO start arguing/debating/spatting, whatever, we start with one thing and then we end up arguing about how we are arguing.
We have never been disrespectful and we usually talk about :luv2: it and squash it later but then 14 days later......... we are at it again.
I mean I don't expect things to be lovey dovey every single day because real life kicks in but how long does the lovey dovey last for you before it runs out.
I don't want to feel like I am the only one experiencing this so help a sister out!!!
Are these growing pains???? We are getting over the spats much faster (usually the next day) and I feel like I am learning how to deal with this better.
Do you get along with your SO every day, and if so, for how long before you have to open up a can of whipazzzz :hardslap:and/or before an argument or spat occurs.
***This includes any kind of disagreement, differences of opinion that cause your blood pressure to rise (you know), something simple taken to the next level. If you gotta ask......yes it applies.
I am beginning to wonder if my view on compatibility and getting along in a relationship is unrealistic. erplexed
We are all familiar with the phrase, "you pick and choose your battles." :swordfigh
In my past long term relationships that had absolutely no arguing, it was due in large part to a) I didn't really care enough to argue or b) I was so in love with the person that I picked and chose my battles out of wanting to keep the peace or fear. So basically, I was either bored or freakin crazy.
I'm in a fairly new relationship. 3 months out we were going strong, absolutely no arguments . Now, it's happening!! :axehunter:
I feel he is great for me and we compliment each other very well, me but it seems like every 14 days or so we get into a stupid spat about what, you ask??? Absolutely Nothing!!!!
Maybe its frustration/tiredness/misunderstandings, I have no idea . When me and my SO start arguing/debating/spatting, whatever, we start with one thing and then we end up arguing about how we are arguing.
We have never been disrespectful and we usually talk about :luv2: it and squash it later but then 14 days later......... we are at it again.
I mean I don't expect things to be lovey dovey every single day because real life kicks in but how long does the lovey dovey last for you before it runs out.
I don't want to feel like I am the only one experiencing this so help a sister out!!!
Are these growing pains???? We are getting over the spats much faster (usually the next day) and I feel like I am learning how to deal with this better.
Do you get along with your SO every day, and if so, for how long before you have to open up a can of whipazzzz :hardslap:and/or before an argument or spat occurs.
***This includes any kind of disagreement, differences of opinion that cause your blood pressure to rise (you know), something simple taken to the next level. If you gotta ask......yes it applies.
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