i used to detangle with my denman pretty much everday or every 2 days (when ever i cowashed), and i think that was 2 much manipulation, plus i heard some hair snaps on a few occasions! but i was watching nappychronicles on youtube and she said she detangles less and has more length retention and curl definition, and i've been trying that for the past few weeks, and detangling less and doing the shake n go (i get the best results from cowashing and then rinsing most of the conditioner out w/ cold water and then sealing with castor oil doing a light rinse again with cold water and air dry (dont touch until dry)...omg SOFT, MOIST defined curls for atleast 3 days) my curls are more defined and i think im retaining more length...now i only detangle 1x a week, using my fingers (and usually it doesnt feel like it needs to be detangled because the water and conditioner smooth out any tangles or knots, but i still do it anyways)...even if i cowash midweek i dont detangle, and in the mornings when i dont wash i usually spritz or rinse w/ water and shake...when im wearing a puff then at night i spray my hair with water and put some shea butter on my edges and brush them w/ a soft brush and then put on a goody ouchless band and a scarf on the front...i just leave the back out and dont finger comb or anything