How much do you know about the guy your dating?

[Bublin]

This has probably been posted before, it's from 2009 but it's the first time i have seen it and i was like :thatsall:.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NCOOtG2r6-8&feature=relmfu

I have not had a relationship in almost 2 years and think this woman has made sure i do at least another 2....at least stay celibate anyway..heck she made me nervous even to kiss a guy

So for those who have been dating a guy for say, under 3 months. What do you ACTUALLY know about him right now?

My Stats:
Met 2 weeks ago/talked 1 week before that.......2 dates

I know:
- His mobile number

- His full name

- His work email address, his work website, his work address and telephone number.

- I have seen 2 bank cards with his name on.

- Seen his driving licence.

- His date of birth

- Seen a pic of his daughter ( and know her name)

(i have added a couple more things to this list since i first posted as i remembered i knew them)

Over to you....

 

[tinkat]

Not dating anyone but that was a good video.

 

[meesch]

ooooh! i wanna play even though we have been dating for longer than 3 months.

i know...

- his home address
- that he is wearing a mohawk in his driver's license picture
- where he got his degree from/what his degree is in
- how much student loan debt he has
- the names of his parents and siblings
- what kind of car he drives
- where he works and his work email
- his regular email, skype
- what his job was in college
- where his parents live
- that he has a roommate/his roommate's name/age

i dont know
- his birthday (i know it's next month but i havent got the exact date)
- his middle name (i think he might have told me but if he did i forgot)
- his license plate number (havent bothered to make note of it)

 

[allmundjoi]

Did she say anything about knowing the guy's HIV status? That's up there with number, last name and emergency contact.


OT: was I the only one staring at her chest? Lol. Afterwork I am going home to cut up some of my tshirts just like that.

 

[MsDee14]

Dating about 3 months

I know:His Birthday
His full name
His home address
His Phone number
His blog
His hometown Cities name
Seen a pic of his daughter
His Sisters, Brother n Law and niece's name
His mothers birthday (it's a few days before mine)
Seen his license
Been to his place
What kind of car he drives
The gyms he goes to
His favorite foods
His favorite colors
How he likes his hair cut (I cut it for him once

I don't know

His email- He just asked for my email address and sent me an email..so now I know that
I guess as the above mentioned his HIV status...but before we even engage in sexual acts that's the number one question I will ask. Give me some time here

and I'm sure there is more.

 

[StarScream35]

Dating Three Weeks

His Full Name
Where he lives but not his address
His Phone #
Where he works
I know what kinda car he drives but don't know the tag #
He loves Morbid things
He's VERY liberal
He wears his heart on his sleeves
And that's about it.................

 

[Kimbosheart]

It might be easier to list what I don't know even though I can't think of anything I'm wondering off the top of my head. We've been together for a little over 2 years.

I don't know the password to his phone or email but I could figure it out. Or the code to turn off the alarm at his house but I could figure that out too if I had to.

I know and have met his family. I'd love to meet his extended family and maybe that will happen soon. I know his medical history, interestingly enough. I don't know his grades from his first year of law school but I could guess.

 

[Bublin]

In the US it seems almost standard, or at least it's not taboo, to talk about HIV status or even ask for a test result.
In the UK i don't know of anyone, or heard of anyone who has asked a potential mate for a HIV test. It's very worrying actually.
I know i'm all clear and from now on i want to know if 'he' is too.

 

[InchHighPrivateEye]

Ok, I wanna play.
Um dating for about 4/5 weeks (that's one thing I don't know. lol)

I know:

-Full name
-D.O.B.
-Name/Picture of his little brother
-Towns where his father & stepmother and mother live
-Nickname
-He loves to watch documentaries
-His current job, last job, and college job
-Kind of car he drives
-Address
-Work #
-Email
-Work best friend's name
-the gym he goes to and his workout schedule
-The people he doesn't like at the gym
-his boss's name
-the type of food he won't eat
-where he banks
-at least one thing that he's insecure about
-the age he lost his V card
-favorite author

 

[MsKikiStar]

Wow!! I recently broke up with a guy I was dating for a little over 3 months and this video made me realize there's a lot I didn't know about him. But he sure knew a lot more about me. Something about that always made me uncomfortable around him. Never talked about his past relationships, just work and how much he liked me. erplexed

 

[Bnster]

Wowa, her video scared the s*it out of me. I live in a naive world and I am old, I'm no spring chicken. Thanks for the vid OP.

 

[Raspberry]

In the US it seems almost standard, or at least it's not taboo, to talk about HIV status or even ask for a test result.
In the UK i don't know of anyone, or heard of anyone who has asked a potential mate for a HIV test. It's very worrying actually.
I know i'm all clear and from now on i want to know if 'he' is too.

I'm not sure that this is true honestly. Yes people talk more openly about HIV status in theory but I don't know many women who are honestly asking for a man's status before they sleep with him.

Also, a person is way more likely to have herpes than they are to have HIV, I'm surprised that we don't put herpes in the need-to-know category before sex is involved. It may be that since we subconsciously know that it is unlikely that a potential partner will have HIV (statistically speaking), it's easier to talk about that rather than the more widespread diseases like herpes and chlamydia...neither one is a game for women, even if they're not fatal.

Herpes has me scared to kiss men.. no lie. It's like 1 out of 4 people has it depending on the age group.

 

[Kindheart]

if a man tell you "I m cool " I took 2 tests last year ,I m straight ,you straight ?
Would you believe them?How do you know he s not lying to get some?

 

[Kindheart]

I'm not sure that this is true honestly. Yes people talk more openly about HIV status in theory but I don't know many women who are honestly asking for a man's status before they sleep with him.

Also, a person is way more likely to have herpes than they are to have HIV, I'm surprised that we don't put herpes in the need-to-know category before sex is involved. It may be that since we subconsciously know that it is unlikely that a potential partner will have HIV (statistically speaking), it's easier to talk about that rather than the more widespread diseases like herpes and chlamydia...neither one is a game for women, even if they're not fatal.

Herpes has me scared to kiss men.. no lie. It's like 1 out of 4 people has it depending on the age group.

Gonorreah can make you infertile if not treated and in most women is asymptomatic .