How Much Can You Share With Your Man??

[jerseyhaircare]

Long story short, I did laundry and only replaced my towel in the bathroom. Next day, i realize that there is still only one towel in our bathroom, despite there being two adults bathing daily. A part of me was horrified, but I wondered if that was me being childish. Like we share everything else, what's a towel between mates? I planned to replace the towel, but not make a big deal out of it.

30 mins later, I walk in on hubby drying off with said towel. He's drying his balls vigorously with said towel. The same towel I used to dry my face and other parts earlier that morning. I walk out, sick to my stomach. Once he leaves, I throw the balls towel into the washer and put two new towels into the bathroom.

All this to ask, is it normal to feel squeamish about sharing stuff with your mate, despite loving and living together? Or are you from the one love, what's yours is mine, sort of camp?

 

[LivingInPeace]

Why did you replace just your towel?

 

[NOEChic]

I'm done. So done. I have TEARS IN MY EYES!!!!

 

[NOEChic]

Think about how long he's been wiping his balls with your towel and you wipe your face with it the next day lol.

 

[jerseyhaircare]

Why did you replace just your towel?

Laziness. Plus he knows where the linen closet is. However, from now on, I'll replace both.

 

[momi]

@ vigorously

 

[jerseyhaircare]

Think about how long he's been wiping his balls with your towel and you wipe your face with it the next day lol.

Girl, some things I don't want to ever think about, lmbo!!!

 

[NOEChic]

@ vigorously

This is where I lost it lol. I was in the phone with a friend reading this and I died. I tried to read it to him, I couldn't. I had to just copy and paste it to him lol. Mind you I'm at work.

 

[naturalgyrl5199]

Chiiiilllle...You married...ya'll swap secretions and drool in all other manners. For our squeamishness you caught it in time, so its not like you used the towel after he dried his man parts...so you're good. But very likely he has been doing this for a while
I get it....I actually do toss the towel when I see it afterwards....but...we got a kid and we are married with an active and ....ahem...EXCITING (for lack of telling on ourselves) sexual life together so I give it a split-second's thought and move on.

 

[ladysaraii]

That's too much.

Said this single lady.

As Latrice would say

 

[Browndilocks]

Why did this have to be the first thing I read this morning?

 

[FelaShrine]

Chiiiilllle...You married...ya'll swap secretions and drool in all other manners. For our squeamishness you caught it in time, so its not like you used the towel after he dried his man parts...so you're good. But very likely he has been doing this for a while
I get it....I actually do toss the towel when I see it afterwards....but...we got a kid and we are married with an active and ....ahem...EXCITING (for lack of telling on ourselves) sexual life together so I give it a split-second's thought and move on.

you use your husband's toothbrush?

 

[naturalmanenyc]

We don't share any hygiene products beyond me using his toothbrush base if mine isn't charged.
We have two of everything, including water picks although we could just use different heads. It was a buy one get a travel size for free though.

 

[jerseyhaircare]

Chiiiilllle...You married...ya'll swap secretions and drool in all other manners. For our squeamishness you caught it in time, so its not like you used the towel after he dried his man parts...so you're good. But very likely he has been doing this for a while
I get it....I actually do toss the towel when I see it afterwards....but...we got a kid and we are married with an active and ....ahem...EXCITING (for lack of telling on ourselves) sexual life together so I give it a split-second's thought and move on.

Yes, but my question is why does it bother me? I share towels with my kids without a moments thought. But why does seeing a penis on my towel bring me such consternation? the same penis that brings my lady parts such joy??? It's just strange.

 

[NOEChic]

It's funny because I thought I had an ingrown hair in my lady bits, but I couldn't see it, so I had him look and see if I had one lol. But we can't share towels.

 

[sj10460]

This is absolutely ridiculous. A shared towel has you disgusted? Don't you put his genitals in your face?

 

[FemmeFatale]

I was in Dunkin Donuts reading this and cracked up.

My SO is super clean and we're active, so honestly it wouldn't bother me that much. If I had no other option, I'd use it but I wouldn't use it on my face, I would let it air dry

 

[LiftedUp]

My dad used my mother's Toothbrush until she found out and began hiding hers

I'm not that communal so nope

 

[jerseyhaircare]

This is absolutely ridiculous. A shared towel has you disgusted? Don't you put his genitals in your face?

All the time!!!. That's why I'm puzzled.

Intellectually, I know it's not a big deal. But somehow, the thought of rubbing my face with a towel freshly blessed by a man's balls just f's with my mind.

 

[Kanky]

I thought that this was going to be about keeping secrets.

I would be pissed if I'd used a ball towel on my face and I have nothing against balls in general.

 

[LivingInPeace]

All the time!!!. That's why I'm puzzled.

Intellectually, I know it's not a big deal. But somehow, the thought of rubbing my face with a towel freshly blessed by a man's balls just f's with my mind.

I thought that this was going to be about keeping secrets.

I would be pissed if I'd used a ball towel on my face and I have nothing against balls in general.

But he's also drying his behind off with the towel. I'm not sharing arse towels with anybody.

 

[B_Phlyy]

I was coming in to say the only thing I keep from him are my Sephora and Ulta receipts.

I usually wash all the towels but we don't share. He has his own and I have mine. We even hang them up in different places so no risk of crossing.

 

[jerseyhaircare]

But he's also drying his behind off with the towel. I'm not sharing arse towels with anybody.

You're likely correct. Even though I only witnessed the frontal attack, I must assume that the backside received as much love and attention. The towel must be burnt. Thank you.

 

[FemmeFatale]

You're likely correct. Even though I only witnessed the frontal attack, I must assume that the backside received as much love and attention. The towel must be burnt. Thank you.

 

[LivingInPeace]

You're likely correct. Even though I only witnessed the frontal attack, I must assume that the backside received as much love and attention. The towel must be burnt. Thank you.

You're so dramatic.

 

[Crackers Phinn]

Yes, but my question is why does it bother me? I share towels with my kids without a moments thought. But why does seeing a penis on my towel bring me such consternation? the same penis that brings my lady parts such joy??? It's just strange.

It bothers you because ain't nobody tryna get a face full of Eau De Balls after a shower.

 

[Lucie]

We share oils and TF Black Orchid.

I can't use a damp towel anyway.

 

[Lucie]

I was coming in to say the only thing I keep from him are my Sephora and Ulta receipts.

I usually wash all the towels but we don't share. He has his own and I have mine. We even hang them up in different places so no risk of crossing.

True.

My towels are pink and red, he has the "manly" ones.

 

[claudzie]

Lol the poor man was just vigorously enjoying drying his balls and now he is lhcf famous. To answer the question, I don't mind sharing ny towel, I just dont want to see the whole drying off process.

 

[claudzie]

Double post