My second time..
I was going strong and decided to have a relaxer...to check the length
this was BEFORE I knew anything about blowing out the roots or using other means to straighten my 4C ...or whichever is the tighest curl pattern...hair
well the "stylist" and I use the word loosely
slathered on relaxer..with both hands.. without parting it...or pre-oiling the edges
or smoothing it on the roots... all because she was completely overwhelmed with my hair
in its natural unblown state..it's super-thick
superwild...and she thot she cld manage it by dumping on the relaxer
she was a beginner
ohhhhhhhhhhh Just thinking about it
I refused to pay for it either
but it effectively
KILLED any desire to EVER be relaxed again
forever.........
i spose i oughta thank her for that~
it's been about 6 years and my hair ought to be longer
but I am very lazy and careless w/it