blaqueskimo
New Member
So I have a question. I know that when you end a relationship with someone the time varies before you let the whole thing go privately................but when do you let go publicly? Let me tell you what happened to me at the club this weekend.
So my man friend and I were out with a whole group. So we had a whole table of friends etc, and everyone was having a good time. Now my man friend had previously dated this lady who happened to be a bartender at this place. We usually don't ever go here but that night we did.( I actually now think he avoids the place because he know she tends bar there etc and that she may be nuts)
Anyway apparently at some point when I went to the bathroom she leaves the bar where she's supposed to be WORKING and comes by him and tells him that he's being disrespectful to her( I can only guess it's because she sees him with me and he's very affectionate with me so she may have seen him kiss me at the table etc.)
So at the end of the night he and another friend of mine went outside to smoke and she goes out there and creates a huge scene. He aint sh**, he's dsrespectful, and a whole lot of other mess.
I walked out to go to the car right after it happened to I missed the whole deal but he claims he didn't do or say anything to provoke it and plus my girlfriend was right there and states that as well.
But I'm like damn.
Why would she be tripping like this? for no reason. So you know I asked the basics. You still doing her or what? Why would she be acting like that for no reason? And to act like this where you work?
The thing is we've seen this chick other places before and he's said nothing to her. She's seen me places before and has said nothing to me.
Could it be she felt like he shouldn't have been seen with another woman at her job? or the more obvious reason?
What yall think?
So my man friend and I were out with a whole group. So we had a whole table of friends etc, and everyone was having a good time. Now my man friend had previously dated this lady who happened to be a bartender at this place. We usually don't ever go here but that night we did.( I actually now think he avoids the place because he know she tends bar there etc and that she may be nuts)
Anyway apparently at some point when I went to the bathroom she leaves the bar where she's supposed to be WORKING and comes by him and tells him that he's being disrespectful to her( I can only guess it's because she sees him with me and he's very affectionate with me so she may have seen him kiss me at the table etc.)
So at the end of the night he and another friend of mine went outside to smoke and she goes out there and creates a huge scene. He aint sh**, he's dsrespectful, and a whole lot of other mess.
I walked out to go to the car right after it happened to I missed the whole deal but he claims he didn't do or say anything to provoke it and plus my girlfriend was right there and states that as well.
But I'm like damn.
Why would she be tripping like this? for no reason. So you know I asked the basics. You still doing her or what? Why would she be acting like that for no reason? And to act like this where you work?
The thing is we've seen this chick other places before and he's said nothing to her. She's seen me places before and has said nothing to me.
Could it be she felt like he shouldn't have been seen with another woman at her job? or the more obvious reason?
What yall think?