YankeeCandle
New Member
I don't really mean "how much do you care what your friends think of your SO?" It's not that simple.
I mean, you have two parties: the first one is a person you love, admire and respect. You have a Loved One #2, either an S.O. or a dear friend whom you also love, admire and respect. The former is *not* prejudiced from the outset against the latter (e.g. we're not talking the stereotypical ethnic/economic issues your strict old-school granny has about your Japanese street musician husband).
Rather, "granny" is ready and willing to keep an open mind about your relationships, but "she" has come to an unfavorable opinion or conclusion about your loved one that you believe is inaccurate due to her simply not knowing the latter well enough.
Assume that you genuinely believe they have the wrong impression of your friend or SO. How much, if at all, do you let it affect (a) your relationship, and (b) your opinion of Loved One #2?
I mean, you have two parties: the first one is a person you love, admire and respect. You have a Loved One #2, either an S.O. or a dear friend whom you also love, admire and respect. The former is *not* prejudiced from the outset against the latter (e.g. we're not talking the stereotypical ethnic/economic issues your strict old-school granny has about your Japanese street musician husband).
Rather, "granny" is ready and willing to keep an open mind about your relationships, but "she" has come to an unfavorable opinion or conclusion about your loved one that you believe is inaccurate due to her simply not knowing the latter well enough.
Assume that you genuinely believe they have the wrong impression of your friend or SO. How much, if at all, do you let it affect (a) your relationship, and (b) your opinion of Loved One #2?