nychaelasymone
Well-Known Member
I have a 33 year old friend and I think he's going through something. He's decided to grow his hair out, which is fine, but in my opinion, it's a little unprofessional for him to be rockin' desinged cornrows (it gives him a thugish look). Although it's a personal preference, I just know how clear people act, especially when you're trying to move up the corporate ladder. I expressed to him that I like the braids but I do think they are unprofessional and he should rethink the idea right now and rock them when he's made it to where he wants to be. He has a negative attitude about his job and basicially told me that professionalism has gotten him no where. Okay fine-I guess my point is when he does get an interview for another company, is he going in cornrows? I don't know why groomed locks are seemingly more accepted than designed rows but they are (in my world). He told me to where to go-in a not so nice way but I told him the truth, since I'm in the same boat, trying to climb the same ladder. I realize that black men do have a hard time but how can I be supportive and honest at the same time?