I'm asking because my SO and I are both very stubborn independent people, and we love to be right - we're both lawyers - when we first got together whenever we got into an argument it would just go on and on and we both got really sick of it. I have since learned to stop myself from saying things the way I want to say it and instead try to say it in a way that he will be receptive to, many times I'll write him a long email letter detailing my point of view and what my understanding of his p.o.v is. He doesn't really like it because I'm long winded lol and he thinks its a little cold but I think the distance of a letter enables me to calm down and say what I mean instead of trying to win the argument. At the end of the day my relationship with him and how we feel about each other is more important than winning an argument.
Anyway what I wanted to know is how do you guys resolve arguments with your SO/Husband without feeling like a pushover?
Anyway what I wanted to know is how do you guys resolve arguments with your SO/Husband without feeling like a pushover?