PrissiSippi
Simply Komplex
My boyfriend is amazing. He showers me with love respect and affection. Over the year and a half he has never let me down always been a shoulder to cry on and always my Prince Charming.
But lawd he can be sooo lazy in my eyes. He's the baby of the fam. I feel like he's been catered to his whole life. I want him to be more masculine in his tasks. For instance we don't live together but I have to remind him to take out the trash or walk the dog.
My Inspection sticker was out on my car. I don't pay attention to that. I want him to get in the habit of looking out for me when it comes to things like that. He will completely mess up a room and think nothing of it. He doesn't clean. My car is messed up; I want him to check on it without me asking him to.
Right now at times I feel he is a child. I keep saying do this, do this, can you do this. He will happily do it but I want him to take the initiative and do it on his own.
Every time I ask why didn't u check on this for me he says "I thought your dad would do it" I though friend xyz had this covered. He often talks about marriage and I feel like I can't marry a man that expects other people to look after me. One day I won't have a father or etc. you will be the one I look towards.
I'm rambling. But I need help in discussing with him instead of coming off as a B I S H. I can be antagonizing at times. I can come all harsh and go IN on things I don't like. But it's hurting my relationship. I feel like I have ruined his self esteem and it's at an all time low. I need to learn how to stroke his ego but let him know what I expect. Help please?
But lawd he can be sooo lazy in my eyes. He's the baby of the fam. I feel like he's been catered to his whole life. I want him to be more masculine in his tasks. For instance we don't live together but I have to remind him to take out the trash or walk the dog.
My Inspection sticker was out on my car. I don't pay attention to that. I want him to get in the habit of looking out for me when it comes to things like that. He will completely mess up a room and think nothing of it. He doesn't clean. My car is messed up; I want him to check on it without me asking him to.
Right now at times I feel he is a child. I keep saying do this, do this, can you do this. He will happily do it but I want him to take the initiative and do it on his own.
Every time I ask why didn't u check on this for me he says "I thought your dad would do it" I though friend xyz had this covered. He often talks about marriage and I feel like I can't marry a man that expects other people to look after me. One day I won't have a father or etc. you will be the one I look towards.
I'm rambling. But I need help in discussing with him instead of coming off as a B I S H. I can be antagonizing at times. I can come all harsh and go IN on things I don't like. But it's hurting my relationship. I feel like I have ruined his self esteem and it's at an all time low. I need to learn how to stroke his ego but let him know what I expect. Help please?