Bmack
Active Member
My girlfriend is trying to distance and move on with her life after dealing with a man that she works with. He is a very influential in NY senator (cannot name names), and has served as her mentor and co-worker/boss. She loves what she does, but she does not want to be all-awkward at work because she is trying to extinguish their relationship.
Okay let me give you some background. She and him started the relationship after working closely for about a year, but she is finding out that he may have lied about his relationship with his ex wife. Where he started out all charming and behaved as if she was the greatest thing since sliced bread, he is now acting like a very different person. Where he use to woo her, he now appears to care less-unless it has to do with them having sex, my friend is hurt, but is a big girl who is professional. Therefore, she wants to move on, without causing ripples.
First, she does not want everyone all in her business, and has decided to let it fizzle out without telling him to go to hell because according to her, he does not deserve an explanation-she just wants to go cold turkey…, which she has, and now the **** is calling off the hook! This is the funny part because he was just acting as if he did not care.
Anyway, do you have any advice on how she can end this and still save face; remain professional with out falling apart? She is crushed on the inside but she is wearing her game face to work everyday.
Okay let me give you some background. She and him started the relationship after working closely for about a year, but she is finding out that he may have lied about his relationship with his ex wife. Where he started out all charming and behaved as if she was the greatest thing since sliced bread, he is now acting like a very different person. Where he use to woo her, he now appears to care less-unless it has to do with them having sex, my friend is hurt, but is a big girl who is professional. Therefore, she wants to move on, without causing ripples.
First, she does not want everyone all in her business, and has decided to let it fizzle out without telling him to go to hell because according to her, he does not deserve an explanation-she just wants to go cold turkey…, which she has, and now the **** is calling off the hook! This is the funny part because he was just acting as if he did not care.
Anyway, do you have any advice on how she can end this and still save face; remain professional with out falling apart? She is crushed on the inside but she is wearing her game face to work everyday.