Cincysweetie
Well-Known Member
Has anyone ever had a guy running his hands through your hair...and his hand got stuck? LMAO 
I know I'm not the only one!! This has happened to me on occassion, and happened again the other night. But this time was different because it brought me to another level of love and acceptance of my hair, so I just wanted to share this with my fellow hairlovers. 
First of all, my hair was in a braidout and we all know better than to comb a braidout--which is basically what he was doing, but with his fingers. 
Second, I had just met dude. His hands should not have been in my hair to begin with...especially since I know he was just trying to track check (but that's another issue). And third, this braidout was a few days old, so NO, his hands weren't gonna just gliiiiiiiiide right through...
For a minute I was a little embarrassed that his hand got caught up in my tresses. But I was thinking about it later and I thought...who cares that it was nappy and wild or that his hand got stuck? Does it really matter that I don't have the type of hair that a man can just run his fingers through at any given time?? My hair has TEXTURE. THICKNESS. Waves, curls, AND naps. But all of that is what makes it so sexy to a man. That's what makes a man WANT to touch it and run his hands all through it. So he might get a little stuck in the process, but all the things that catch his hand as he attempts to glide through--the texture, the thickness, the waves, curls and naps--are the things that make my hair beautiful.
I know I'm not the only one!! This has happened to me on occassion, and happened again the other night. But this time was different because it brought me to another level of love and acceptance of my hair, so I just wanted to share this with my fellow hairlovers. First of all, my hair was in a braidout and we all know better than to comb a braidout--which is basically what he was doing, but with his fingers. Second, I had just met dude. His hands should not have been in my hair to begin with...especially since I know he was just trying to track check (but that's another issue). And third, this braidout was a few days old, so NO, his hands weren't gonna just gliiiiiiiiide right through...For a minute I was a little embarrassed that his hand got caught up in my tresses. But I was thinking about it later and I thought...who cares that it was nappy and wild or that his hand got stuck? Does it really matter that I don't have the type of hair that a man can just run his fingers through at any given time?? My hair has TEXTURE. THICKNESS. Waves, curls, AND naps. But all of that is what makes it so sexy to a man. That's what makes a man WANT to touch it and run his hands all through it. So he might get a little stuck in the process, but all the things that catch his hand as he attempts to glide through--the texture, the thickness, the waves, curls and naps--are the things that make my hair beautiful.
No more hands in the hair for me, I guess if I was natural I would re-consider it
, he wasn't sticking around to see if I was contagious
