There are a lot of threads about cheating and taken men and the whole KARMA thing.
Do you STILL believe in the how you get him lose em thing, in regards to people engaging in affairs OR committed relationships knowingly! I used to buy into the concept of such doomsday tails with relationships but again, life has certainly shown me otherwise. I know of three couples who got together, while someone was in a marriage or relationship. They are still going strong, after many, many years and kids added to it as well. It's hard for me to not be happy for them as time continues on. I can only hope that they are happy in their decisions.
So as much as some would like to believe in this theory, could it be that maybe those two people connected better. They just paved the way for the partner left behind to truly find happiness. My gf's husband just recently married the woman he cheated with. My friend has married what she says is the best man for her...she IS VERY happy. Oddly enough, the ex seems REALLY happy with his new wife as well. I have been in their company and I wish no ill will toward them, because I see their happiness and bond together. I love that my gf is very happy as well. I think sometimes things tend to be hard for others to accept, when it comes to relationships and cheating. Now....I in no way feel people should cheat on each other. I think one should leave the marriage or relationship. I just think as I've gotten older, I just understand that in this lifetime all you want to do is find happiness and love.
Does anyone else know people in situations as such who really seem to be happy?
Do you STILL believe in the how you get him lose em thing, in regards to people engaging in affairs OR committed relationships knowingly! I used to buy into the concept of such doomsday tails with relationships but again, life has certainly shown me otherwise. I know of three couples who got together, while someone was in a marriage or relationship. They are still going strong, after many, many years and kids added to it as well. It's hard for me to not be happy for them as time continues on. I can only hope that they are happy in their decisions.
So as much as some would like to believe in this theory, could it be that maybe those two people connected better. They just paved the way for the partner left behind to truly find happiness. My gf's husband just recently married the woman he cheated with. My friend has married what she says is the best man for her...she IS VERY happy. Oddly enough, the ex seems REALLY happy with his new wife as well. I have been in their company and I wish no ill will toward them, because I see their happiness and bond together. I love that my gf is very happy as well. I think sometimes things tend to be hard for others to accept, when it comes to relationships and cheating. Now....I in no way feel people should cheat on each other. I think one should leave the marriage or relationship. I just think as I've gotten older, I just understand that in this lifetime all you want to do is find happiness and love.
Does anyone else know people in situations as such who really seem to be happy?