LAAADIIESSSSSS! I'm so happy! Hehe, I've been feeling this way for a while but actually going back and seeing why has put it into perspective!
Remember my setback?! It was posted in the
HL-TBL 2014 thread
starting with this post.
^ It was such a disappointment but I didn't let it get me down for long.
I feel like based on my attitude and plans... I recovered super quickly. It's been 10 months since the incident with my stylist and I feel really good about my hair – actually, like I said, I've been feeling good for a while.
Soooo... time to see if I've followed through with my plans after the setback:
PLANS FOR NOW UNTIL NEXT RELAXER:
- Wash my hair with my dandruff shampoo to cleanse scalp and to help heal any irritated areas ✓
- Use protein balancing treatments on my hair to strengthen weak/over-processed areas ✓
- Research into DIY relaxer; need to find a good relaxer, base, technique ✓
- Continue to take supplements, eat healthily, and drink water; strong hair comes from strong nutrition ✓
- Always keep hair detangled and knot free ✘
- Tame roots with oil when dry ✘
- Look into buying a steamer ✓
- Never go back to my hair stylist ✓
^ These all seem do-able. I'm feeling hopeful, thank you ladies for your support.
^ Seems like I followed through with most things although I did slack off once I seemed to really accept my hair would grow back. I still have room for improvement but at the same time it's nice to keep it simple and not be so serious all the time.
I remember I did wash my hair and my scalp recovered from the burns quickly, still working with my scalp issues but it's not too terrible if I wash my hair every 4-5 days. Definitely need to get back to doing more consistent protein treatments as well as use my steamer more often but after that setback, I remember being very diligent. My DIY relaxer technique does need improvement but I think it'll get better with experience, the base and relaxer are great though.
Eating healthy foods will always be a work in progress but I do take my supplements every day and have for a loonnnngg time, also have been drinking a lot more water lately and trying to eliminate juice + pop. I don't keep my hair tangle free all the time and I don't oil my roots but I'll keep trying to at least do one of the two – this has ALWAYS been a problem for me though. Overall, at least I can say I NEVER went back to my stylist, HA!
Lots of room for improvement but like I said, it's nice to not be so serious all the time, it can end up feeling overwhelming, leading to laziness, which can lead to a possible setback. I'm pretty content, I feel like I tried to follow most of what I set out to do after what happened.
I just want to thank you ladies for the support, the kind words of encouragement and sharing of your stories has helped tremendously. I'm so glad I started this challenge back in 2012, having you ladies here to talk about all things hair along with being able to share secret hair goals has truly been lovely.
Happy hair growing!