He's willing to make a promise...

[phynestone]

...that he will marry me in the future if we get back together. As much as I still care about this man, I don't think I can commit to him. I know that the marriage wouldn't be good for me and I would also be miserable. I believe I will make the right decision by saying no, but any insight from you ladies? Thanks!

 

[Synthia]

I sure you've already meditated on this, so let me just say follow your instinct and intuition. You're hesitant for a good reason. Go with that.

 

[Nubianrose]

Don't settle!! I'm sure that you know in your heart what you want in a husband- and apparently he's not it

 

[Sweet C]

I believe that you have made the right decision. I don't know, maybe its just me, but if that is how he approached it: "If we get back together now, I promise to marry you later." I would be highly suspicious. If this man is a believer and God told him that you were his wife, then there wouldn't be a need for these antics.