lol i think i'm CRAZY but there is some logic in what i'm about to do in 3 weeks time when i touch-up my newgrowth, i hope i don't start crying.isioma85 said:I salute your bravery den. The length you're about to cut off is pretty much all the hair I have on my head right now.But if you know your hair will be better off after, then it makes sense.
They look thick and healthy to me. Did you try pulling the relaxer through the ends.
Thanks i'm glad you understand...I want to make a clean slate and hope that next year will bring lots of healthy length.JLove74 said:I applaud you. I'm like you, I see no need in holding on to damaged, over/underprocessed hair....I don't understand people that are afraid to cut or hold on to old hair. You've taken great care of it in the past, it will be beautiful as it grows
Yes, i've pulled the relaxer through and i did come out straighter and softer. My ends are super thick but they're not healthy.LocksOfLuV said:I'm so sowwy for this but I REALLLY don't think you you need it.
LocksOfLuV said:I'm so sowwy for this but I REALLLY don't think you you need it.
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Yes exactly, its damaged and feels drier because its underprocessed by my old Affrirm relaxer and its caused my ends to split easily. I don't even want to bother going through my ends with the relaxer again. I have a feeling that the chioce i'm making its gonna work out better in the long run.LocksOfLuV said:That's how I feel. Den are you saying that are damaged because they are underprocessed? You didn't want to give pulling the relaxer down ONE more try? If it damages them you can just cut them off as planned.
But I understand the want to start all over, that would be so exciting.
, then I remembered that I did this for my daughter this summer. Her hair looks so much better now. All the best to you!
den1 said:When you see the length i'm cutting to, yes, i will be taking the plunge to remove the last of the old texturized ends. Do you think its short? WELL OF COURSE YOU ALL WOULD FIND IT REALLY SHORT. Its for the best, my hair will be a lot healthier. BTW my hair isn't dead straight as i was wearing it in an updo style. i think it maybe be top of bra strap.
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lol its hurting me like its my own hair!!!! but i hear you if it s for health but why you dont do it gradually like 2-3inches just the ends. You can go ahead though i m just so chicken i m still crying over the 2inches i cut last month but why not cut after it grows girl? that s drastic but at the same time hum clean slate but your hair is fine sweetie
i would just take off 2-3inches and more later if needed
LMAO that's thing i really want my hair to look better apperance wise too and i know it would make feel less conscuous wearing it down in public.i12sitonmyhair said:At first, I wanted to cry for the length you will give up
stop making me laugh man!!!.....I can't be bothered with gradual trims, at kleast if i cut it now i shouldn't need a trim for at least six months as i'm starting with healthier ends. I wait until i get more length in the meantime i will be cussing my ends forever, and i'll get depressed and do something stupid. My hair grows fast anyway, i'll probably get the length back in 3 months.ekomba said:Dennnnnnnnn dont cut !!!puhleaze
stop making me laugh man!!!.....I can't be bothered with gradual trims, at kleast if i cut it now i shouldn't need a trim for at least six months as i'm starting with healthier ends. If i wait until i get more length in the meantime i will be cussing my ends forever, and i'll get depressed and do something stupid. My hair grows fast anyway, i'll probably get the length back in 3 months.ekomba said:Dennnnnnnnn dont cut !!!puhleaze
