I know I'm not active on this forum but I really need some advice.
So we've had our ups and downs over the 5 years we've been together. We've talked about separating before but we always managed to work things out. I've been wanting to go to counseling so we could learn to communicate better but he never seemed interested. His dad, a pastor, even offered to counsel us early on.
A few days ago he told me that he wants a divorce and he is firm on his decision. Again, I suggested that we go to counseling but he doesn't want to. And because we live in California, he doesn't really need my consent to go through with the divorce.
Is there anything you ladies think I can do to get him to agree to going to counseling?
So we've had our ups and downs over the 5 years we've been together. We've talked about separating before but we always managed to work things out. I've been wanting to go to counseling so we could learn to communicate better but he never seemed interested. His dad, a pastor, even offered to counsel us early on.
A few days ago he told me that he wants a divorce and he is firm on his decision. Again, I suggested that we go to counseling but he doesn't want to. And because we live in California, he doesn't really need my consent to go through with the divorce.
Is there anything you ladies think I can do to get him to agree to going to counseling?