Penspringz
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Now, I really don't want to blow this out of proportion and I will try and keep it as short as possible without sparing the relevant details but I really need advise. I feel so hurt right now all because of one little comment my bf made as what he thought was a joke. I can barely remember how it all started but he said that I am not his type and I didn't hide the fact that his comment hurt me. He tried to play it off as a joke and a "compliment". Apparantly I should feel good about myself if he says I'm not his type but he really likes me and wants to be with me. He compared it to me cooking him a meal with mushrooms and garlic which he hates but eating it and tellling me that he actually really liked it. It must be really good in that case.
We've been together as a proper couple for about 4 months now but have been friends for years and have always liked eachother. Anyway his comment opened up a whole can of worms and got me thinking abd saying stuff like that made me sound really insecure. I said that I just don't want to waste my time in a relationship where the man I'm with doesn't like me all that much. I didn't end it but I think I made it seem as if I am unsure about our relationship. I really like him and want to be with him so much. In my eyes he is almost perfect but I know my worth and I can't waste myself on someone who doesn't feel the same.
Oh ladies, I really don't know what to do. I feel stupid for exposing my insecurities but I feel that it was good that I did it. I really just don't know where to go from here. Please advise me
We've been together as a proper couple for about 4 months now but have been friends for years and have always liked eachother. Anyway his comment opened up a whole can of worms and got me thinking abd saying stuff like that made me sound really insecure. I said that I just don't want to waste my time in a relationship where the man I'm with doesn't like me all that much. I didn't end it but I think I made it seem as if I am unsure about our relationship. I really like him and want to be with him so much. In my eyes he is almost perfect but I know my worth and I can't waste myself on someone who doesn't feel the same.
Oh ladies, I really don't know what to do. I feel stupid for exposing my insecurities but I feel that it was good that I did it. I really just don't know where to go from here. Please advise me