Kinkyhairlady
Well-Known Member
I'm so pissed right now and I'm trying not to call this so called friend to cuss him out. This person is so shady and I'm glad I have discovered his true colors. I've known him for a few years and he has tried to set me up before and I always declined. I finally gave in and now it's biting my in the butt.
To make a long story short ever since he introduced me to my current bf he would call both of us for updates. I was alway mum about things and would not tell him everything. My mistake was when I was upset with my bf twice I called him to complain. He claimed its ok to open up to him and he's a friend here to listen but both times he ran back to tell bf what I said and bf gets upsets with me. Now he's telling my bf that I'm a woman who likes to talk a lot and will probably put him in some drama in the future. Oh that he should get out now while things are still fresh. Bf tells me all of this and this so called friend has stopped calling for like 2 weeks now. When I ask bf what the ex friend said, he says the guy said I'm immature and talk and complain to much, lol. Really?! You've been my friend for over 4 years and now all of the sudden I'm immature and talk too much. He's so shady! I'm torn if I should call him and cuss him out or just leave it be. My bf is still friends with him and that annoys me but I can't do anything about that.
The only reason my bf told me is cause I kept complaining so and so has not called me not return my calls. Finally he told me why. The whole thing is stupid and I have a feeling if bf continues to be his friend he'll be whispering in his ear. What I'm afraid if is him saying anything about my past relationships which were drama filled I have not told my bf any of that although I feel he knows some things. If this does not work out I vow to never let anyone hook me up again!
To make a long story short ever since he introduced me to my current bf he would call both of us for updates. I was alway mum about things and would not tell him everything. My mistake was when I was upset with my bf twice I called him to complain. He claimed its ok to open up to him and he's a friend here to listen but both times he ran back to tell bf what I said and bf gets upsets with me. Now he's telling my bf that I'm a woman who likes to talk a lot and will probably put him in some drama in the future. Oh that he should get out now while things are still fresh. Bf tells me all of this and this so called friend has stopped calling for like 2 weeks now. When I ask bf what the ex friend said, he says the guy said I'm immature and talk and complain to much, lol. Really?! You've been my friend for over 4 years and now all of the sudden I'm immature and talk too much. He's so shady! I'm torn if I should call him and cuss him out or just leave it be. My bf is still friends with him and that annoys me but I can't do anything about that.
The only reason my bf told me is cause I kept complaining so and so has not called me not return my calls. Finally he told me why. The whole thing is stupid and I have a feeling if bf continues to be his friend he'll be whispering in his ear. What I'm afraid if is him saying anything about my past relationships which were drama filled I have not told my bf any of that although I feel he knows some things. If this does not work out I vow to never let anyone hook me up again!