I dated this man who was sweet, caring and devoted dad to his son and was good to me. We were together for a few months, but as time wore on I realized he had a problem.
He wore a uniform for work and he would come by house after work and one day he took off his shirt and I almost fainted. There was ring-around-the-collar that you would not believe! I said, "I know you did not wear that shirt to work." "Please give it to me so I can wash it." He would not let me wash it. He said, "no, it's fine."
He would come over to stay and my bedroom needed to be fumigated when he left! I kid you not! He would shower and everything, but he had this odor which I finally realized was in his hair!
He needed to wash his hair!
I really cared that I did not hurt his feelings, but I just couldn't take it anymore. One night he came over and I told him that if he wanted to stay he had to go into the shower and wash his hair. I put out some CON and some Nexxus AloeRid and told him to start scrubbing. He did, but the feelings I had for him had disappeared.
This relationship was ended by me that same week.
uuughhh!
was his hair long or short?
You couldn't smell it your first date?
I dated a guy that seemed really nice. After going out with him a couple of weeks he would come up to the office a peep through the blinds (where the string goes through the holes) to check up on me. He had to go.
My ex WCG talked so much and put all his friends' business in the street. He'd tell me stuff that I knew they wouldn't want anyone to know. Once we went to visit his parents. Well, his mom had been taking care of his grandmother who can't walk. She has natural 3b hair, and it was all out. I guess she hadn't had time to do it. Anyway, I'm a joker, and so is he. When we left, I made a joke that his mom's hair looked like Sideshow Bob's. It was a joke, and he knew it.
Well, the next thing I know he's coming back and telling me that he told his mom that I said she looked like Sideshow Bob and that she was mad at me. He said, she said, "So, I look like a sideshow now?" Why would you tell your mom that, especially when you can crack all the jokes on my family that you want and even put them in your "comedy act."
Then whenever someone said bad things about me, he would come back, tell me and then laugh about it like it was funny. The worst part is he was the instigator sometimes.
Maybe he just wanted to see you.I dated a guy that seemed really nice. After going out with him a couple of weeks he would come up to the office a peep through the blinds (where the string goes through the holes) to check up on me. He had to go.
Say what?I did.... I have dated a few with some SERIOUS ISSUES. The top two that i dated with problems was my son's father, who could never see anything through. He always started things but could never finish. He started off four different relationships while we were dating
I dated a guy that seemed really nice. After going out with him a couple of weeks he would come up to the office a peep through the blinds (where the string goes through the holes) to check up on me. He had to go.
OMG!! Too funnyNow that I've giggled and laughed at your crazy stories...I'll share. I was dating this man, 10 years older mind you. He had a 3 strike rule. But, apparently he was keeping a secret score-card, because I didn't know anything about it until I had used my 3rd strike and he was directing me to the left.
The last strike came when I said "I don't know, why don't you google it!", in response to some dumb @ss question he was attempting to have a 'meaningful' conversation about.erplexed The question..."How do you think Shine recorded his album from prison?"
He also hated his mom, so I think my smart @ss mouth saved me from getting too deep with this nut-job. The real kicker is, he's a psychologist!!!
Very nice guy, but I couldn't, nor wanted, to teach a grown man hygiene.
I had a very similar experience. I was with a great guy (on paper). Professional, polite, loving, AND tall, dark and handsome:d
I just KNEW he was the One! That is, until I finally took the rose colored glasses off and accepted that he was NASTY!!
He had a constant odor and I got tired of bringing it to his attention. I started to feel like his Mom
He also had a bit of a superiority complex because he had more formal education than I
I was in a relationship with a guy for about a year and the first time we spent the night together, I found out he was a sleepwalker and a sleep talker. Talk about scared!!!!!!! He had to go, cause I saw a movie where this guy killed his family while he was sleepwalking.
and then realized he has serious character issues? If so, please share.
Yea, I met this guy and was dating him and realized that he was a pathological liar - like the type to lie and then start actually believing his own bs. Lied about EVERYTHING - like little stupid stuff "are you with Tmobile? nah, Verizon" type stuff. Lied about where he got his haircut. Lied about where he was from (told me he was from Florida, come to find out he's born and raised in Cali). Lied about his family. Just a damn liar.
I also dated this one guy who was a "music producer" (ok - sidebar. I live in LA so meeting someone who claims to be a music producer is the first red flag). Whatever, he was cute and had chips so I was willing to give it a try. We met at Starbucks and he pulls up in his Lexus (I mention this for a reason). First date we went to this excellent sushi restaurant, then to a "get together" at one of his friends' house (who had a beautiful home in Brentwood over looking all of LA). Then we went back to his house for a little bit (no, it did not go down like that - no kissing, nothing). We actually sat back and listened to music and made some "beats" which was new and fun.
OK - here's where it gets interesting. This man was 32. So when we pull up to his house, this sprawling house in Westwood (at least 6000 square feet), we go into the guest house. The whole time he's talking about how he's gotten to where he's at. Blah Blah Blah. I figured thats where the studio was - whatever.
So we're kicking back and all of a sudden I hear a beeping noise, like an intercom or pager. He pretends like he doesn't hear it. Then the beeping noise becomes one long beep. He still pretends like he doesn't hear it.
Then his MOMMA comes over the intercom and says
"________, baby, are you home now?"
Yes Mom.
"Hi, sweetheart - I love your curly hair" (Thats to me. How she saw me I Have NO IDEA).
"Did you two have fun?"
Yes Mom.
"OK, now".
10 minutes later.
"________, it's time for your company to go home now!"
Yes Mom.
".....and can you make sure you park MY CAR in the garage".
Yes Mom.
Ah damn girl