VelvetRain
Well-Known Member
I am noticing a pattern with the men I have been meeting lately. They love to text all day without a thought first as to maybe I should just pick up the phone and ask her this or that. The guy that I am casually dating now started out just like that. He texts alot but he will often follow up with a phone call every few days. I guess I can't really complain as we have gone out once and have plans in the coming week to go out again. At least he hasn't asked me out via text as of yet.
The second guy lets just say we have been emailing back and forth since Dec 1st. I have yet to actually talk to this guy on the phone. I know weird. Part of me thinks he is married or either already in a relationship. I did go as far as to say are you married? Of course his reply was no. He did go on to tell me he is divorced and how crazy his ex wife was. At this point I am not really invested in either on of these guys especially the second one. I just think it's utter ridiculous that men in their late 30's think that texting and or emailing is a replacement for actual talking. Isn't that the whole point of dating in general. To have an interchange of ideas via conversation?
Not sure how you can do that with emailing someone back and forth to have a conversation. I was curious to see just how long he was going to drag the emailing back and forth so I did give him my contact info Friday. He replied back and said thanks for giving me a way to contact you. I will text you this weekend. Hilarious lol.
Hmmm I have no plans on even responding back to either that future text or emails.
The second guy lets just say we have been emailing back and forth since Dec 1st. I have yet to actually talk to this guy on the phone. I know weird. Part of me thinks he is married or either already in a relationship. I did go as far as to say are you married? Of course his reply was no. He did go on to tell me he is divorced and how crazy his ex wife was. At this point I am not really invested in either on of these guys especially the second one. I just think it's utter ridiculous that men in their late 30's think that texting and or emailing is a replacement for actual talking. Isn't that the whole point of dating in general. To have an interchange of ideas via conversation?
Not sure how you can do that with emailing someone back and forth to have a conversation. I was curious to see just how long he was going to drag the emailing back and forth so I did give him my contact info Friday. He replied back and said thanks for giving me a way to contact you. I will text you this weekend. Hilarious lol.
Hmmm I have no plans on even responding back to either that future text or emails.
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