AfroKink
Well-Known Member
A guy I went on a date with once and talked on the phone with a bunch of times asked me to come over and hang out this past Thursday. I already had plans that night so I didn't see him. I don't know if it's a good idea or not. My gut says "no". He's the good friend of a friend of mine and lives in the same building she does. We met through her.
Problem 1: Hanging out at someone's house isn't a real date, and I don't want to fall into the habit of sitting out on the couch watching TV or movies. I can do that by myself in my own place.
Problem 2: I'm a virgin and not trying to change that status before I see a ring on my finger. He doesn't know this yet. Being alone in someone's apartment seems risky. I don't want him getting ideas, and I don't want to put myself in a position that I will regret later. I'm naive and well inexperienced. I've fallen for the "Come over and hang out" thing, only to have things go farther than they should have
He's made references to me coming over a few times before so I'm going to have to confront this situation eventually.
Should I go with my gut or am I over thinking things?
Lys
Problem 1: Hanging out at someone's house isn't a real date, and I don't want to fall into the habit of sitting out on the couch watching TV or movies. I can do that by myself in my own place.
Problem 2: I'm a virgin and not trying to change that status before I see a ring on my finger. He doesn't know this yet. Being alone in someone's apartment seems risky. I don't want him getting ideas, and I don't want to put myself in a position that I will regret later. I'm naive and well inexperienced. I've fallen for the "Come over and hang out" thing, only to have things go farther than they should have
He's made references to me coming over a few times before so I'm going to have to confront this situation eventually.
Should I go with my gut or am I over thinking things?
Lys